— Elevate your time between the sheets with these moves designed with the female orgasm in mind.
By Shannen Zitz
If you want to make your sex dreams a reality, you’ve come to the right place. Everybody deserves to find pleasure—and with the best sex positions for women you can make sure that you (or your partner) receive just that. Since all bodies are different, it may take some trial and error to find your favorites. But these expert-approved moves are a great place to start.
Taking advantage of these types of positions is important because “certain positions are better suited to female pleasure as they enable direct or indirect stimulation of key erogenous zones like the clitoris or G-spot,” explains Aliyah Moore, Ph.D., a certified sex therapist. “Women often prefer positions that provide such stimulation to enhance their pleasure.”
In addition to trying out some new sex positions, there are a number of ways to increase female pleasure in the bedroom. Moore suggests incorporating the hands, fingers, and mouth to discover what feels good as well as trying out sex toys like vibrators and dildos. “When it comes to enhancing pleasure and achieving orgasm during sex, it’s all about experimentation and exploring different forms of stimulation,” Moore says.
So if you’re excited to change things up in the bedroom, grab your partner and try out these sexpert-recommended positions.
1. Missionary with a pillow
Whoever said missionary position was boring clearly never tried out this variation suggested by Moore. Before you begin, simply place a pillow below the woman’s hips to elevate them slightly, Moore instructs.< This simple modification allows for deeper penetration and increased clitoral stimulation. “The added support and elevation can intensify sensations and increase pleasure,” Moore explains.
2. Cowgirl
Giddy up, partner. The cowgirl position encourages friction against the clitoris, which is often key for the female orgasm. “When riding in this position, you can choose the pace, depth, and angle of penetration, which can help you find what feels best,” explains Joy Berkheimer, Ph.D., L.M.F.T., LGBTQ sexologist.
To perform the cowgirl, one partner will lie flat on their back with their legs out straight, while the other partner will sit on top of them in a straddling position, facing their head, Berkheimer explains. Then, the seated partner can insert their partner’s penis or a sex toy into their vagina.
3. Reverse Cowgirl
This take on the woman-on-top position offers the same pleasure-benefits and control as the regular cowgirl position. Set up the same way, but instead of sitting face-to-face, the partner on top will face toward their partner’s feet.
Berkheimer notes that the reverse cowgirl position offers a ton of versatility and suggests trying out the following variations:
- Have the partner on top lean forward on their hands while bouncing their hips up and down. The partner on top can stay upright and lean on their knees, or they can grind their hips back and forth.
- Have the partner on top lean back and support their weight with their feet and their hands stretched out behind them. They can move their body up and down or back and forth.
4. The lotus
Truly get to a deeper level with this intimate position. The lotus position “allows for intimate eye contact, deep penetration, and the opportunity for the woman to control the rhythm and depth of thrusting,” Moore explains. “The close physical connection and clitoral stimulation can enhance pleasure.”
To get into this position, begin with both partners facing one another. The penetrating partner will be seated in a cross-legged position while the other straddles her partner’s lap, wrapping her legs around their waist.
5. Doggy style
Moore and Berkheimer both suggest adding the classic doggy-style position to your list. It involves the woman on all fours, while the other partner penetrates from behind. It’s a versatile position, allowing for anal or vaginal penetration, with a penis, strap-on, finger, or other sex toy, Berkheimer explains.
“This position allows for deeper penetration and provides an opportunity to stimulate the G-spot,” Moore adds. “The angle of entry can create intense sensations, and the hands are free to explore the clitoris or other erogenous zones.”
6. Queening
If you’re looking for sex without intercourse, queening is the way to go for some oral pleasure. “This position gives direct stimulation to the clitoris and several other erogenous zones at the same time,” Berkehimer says.
In this position, the partner will lie down flat on their back while the woman places her legs around their shoulders with her vulva on their mouth. The woman on top can hover or take a seat while holding the wall or her partner’s head while receiving oral sex. Plus, this position frees up the seated partner’s hands to explore her thighs, breasts, stomach, or buttocks while performing oral sex.
7. Spooning
You and your partner might spoon while watching TV or relaxing for the night, but if you haven’t experienced the position sexually—you should. “This position offers intimacy and allows for deep penetration while providing a sense of comfort and relaxation,” Moore explains. “The woman can control the pressure and angle of penetration by adjusting the position of her legs.”
The position involves both partners lying on their sides, with the penetrating partner positioned behind. The penetrating partner simply performs thrusting movements and can even reach around to stimulate the clitoris or breasts for added pleasure, Moore says.
8. Butterfly
The butterfly position is similar to missionary but with a few fun twists. It allows for (you guessed it) deep penetration, and is perfect for cervical and clitoral stimulation, according to Moore. “The angle of entry and the pressure against the pubic bone can contribute to intense pleasure,” adds Moore.
To get into the position, the woman lies down on her back, on a bed or table, with her hips at the edge. The penetrating partner will stand at the end of the surface being used facing the woman, entering under their legs from a standing position.
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