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In Mourning
Can there ever really be sex without politics?
— When elections impact your relationship
By Sera Bozza
We’ve all heard the saying, ‘opposites attract’, but that’s becoming less and less true when it comes to love and politics. Here’s how to navigate a conversation with a date who … Continue reading
We need to talk about intimate partner violence
This week, Natasha Trethewey, poet and memoirist, visited Trinity University to read and discuss her work. Her pieces encompass many topics, but she focuses on two things in particular: her experience growing up in Mississippi during the
Low libido, intercourse pain, orgasm problems?
— Sexual-health doctors are trying to help
Some Canadian doctors aim to address what they call near-total lack of support for women’s sexual health
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A small number of Canadian doctors specializing in women’s sexual health are trying … Continue reading
What It Means To Have Big Dick Energy
— And How To Tell if You Have It
BDE isn’t literal—it’s a state of mind.
WHAT DO IDRIS Elba, Stanley Tucci, Jeff Goldblum, and Rihanna all have in common? BDE—or “big dick energy”—according to people on … Continue reading
12 Foods to Cure Premature Ejaculation
If you’ve ever searched for information about sexual dysfunction and diet, you may have come across lists of foods that cause premature ejaculation. These lists often contain the usual culprits, from foods high in sugar and
Talk dirty to me with Dr. Carol Queen
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How do I talk dirty? Are people actually having safe oral sex? How can I explore dating and sexuality in my 60s?
Dr. Carol Queen is an author, sex-positive activist, and the staff sexologist at Good Vibes
Your pelvic floor might be impacting your orgasms, here’s how
By DAISY HENRY
Keep that good thing going.
If there was a way to achieve better orgasms, would you take it? Sure, sex and pleasure shouldn’t always be about the big ‘O’ (in fact, there’s a solid case for rethinking
4 Essential Dates Every Couple Needs To Have
By Mark Travers
“If you’re too busy for date night, you’re too busy.” These are the words of Drs. John and Julie Gottman, renowned researchers, therapists and marriage counselors. While they suggest there are multiple factors that contribute to a