Time On My Hands
When I was just a little tike, the nuns who taught me in grade school would often say, “idle hands are the devil’s workshop.” Far be it from me to lend the devil an idle
Who Can I Turn To?
Hello Dr. Dick! I have a serious question for you. I’m relatively new at this, so here goes. In trying to meet and make gay friends, I find that none want a friend. The only
TOO MUCH OF A GOOD THING
Today, I will start with a declaration. A “Thus Sayth Doctor Dick,” sorta deal. I know I’ve said this before, but it bears repeating. I reject the concept of sex addiction, that is floating around
IM Distress Signals
When I first began writing this advice column, back in the Paleolithic era, most correspondence came via snail mail. Those were the days, huh? Email replaced letters as the dominant means of communication about 8
Pros and Wannabes
When it comes to sex, pro and amateur alike have issues. (It’s a good thing too; otherwise I’d be out of work.) Weather one is just getting the hang of things or one is making
Strangers In The Night, Part 1
And now, we turn our attention to our first crop of anonymous submissions.
Name: MIke P
Gender:
Age: 25
Location: Los Angeles
My girlfriend needs to watch lesbian porn to get off and sometimes kicks
Slippery When Wet
Getting to the bottom of things, so to speak is not always as easy as it appears at first glance. I’d like to share with you an exchange I’ve been having with very articulate correspondent
Forbidden Fruit
What is it about things we’re not supposed to have, or even think about, that make these very things so tantalizing? In a sex-negative culture like our own, where sexual roles and gender expectations are
Body Image Blues
Happy New Year everyone!
Did ya’ll survive the holidays? Dr. Dick just barely made it through this annual ordeal by the skin of his teeth. The holidays are supposed to bring out the best
He Knows Me; He knows Me Not
SEX! — We have a finite number of erogenous zones, but an infinite number of ways and means of stimulating them. INTIMACY! — We have a finite number of needs, but an infinite number of
JIZZ, SPOOGE & SPUNK
Hey kids!
This month I have a bunch of correspondence to share with you that concerns one of my favorite topic, JIZZ. How sweet is that?
I just love it when ya’ll take
IS THERE A SPLINTER IN MY EYE?
Today, we visit with a pair of very disgruntled correspondents. How nice!
Have you ever noticed how some folks have an inordinate amount of time on their hands? Time they use to poke around
INTER GENERATIONAL FUN!
A cluster of email arrived lately from folks in inter-generational relationships. They raise some very interesting issues. Check it out.
Dr. Dick, I’m a 20-year-old lesbian and have been involved in a relationship for a
Better Living Through Chemistry??
Better Living Through Chemistry??
Hmmm, maybe not so much anymore.
Nowadays it seems like the whole chemistry thing is actually impeding the better living concept. The epic proportion of crystal-meth addiction is just
Liberating The B.O.B. Within
So ya finally decided to become a B.O.B. (Big Old Bottom)? Tired of missing out on all that ass-play everyone’s talkin’ about? Been secretly trippin’ on the exploits of your favorite porn stars? (“Jeez, would