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November 18, 2009June 24, 2018

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Tony Buff – Podcast #168 – 11/18/09

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Hey sex fans,

Did you miss me last week? I know, I know; it was beyond my control. Sorry to disappoint. But, to make it up to you, I have the real deal for you today. That’s right, we’re gonna get some mighty impressive Sex EDGE-U-cation from one of the luminaries of gay porn. I’m talkin big, big star here people, and that’s both literally and figuratively, if ya catch my drift.

I have the pleasure of welcoming a tireless activist, compelling educator, masterful rigger and superb Dom. He also directs as well as performs in his signature line of critically acclaimed fetish movies. He is the one and only Tony Buff.

If you know anything about BDSM, rope bondage or power play, you will probably know his name. And if you are a connoisseur of cutting edge smut, well then, I know you are a huge fan of this amazing man, just like me.

Tony brings the same intensity and focus of his on screen performances to this interview. And he adds his unique voice to the ever-growing chorus of prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles that is this podcast series.

Tony and I discuss:

Body double, or just a cock double?
The Pacific Northwest as a hotbed of perversion.
His on screen persona being the same as his off screen persona.
How he got his start in porn.
The workshops he and Derek da Silva present together.
His mentors — Max and Monk.
His collaboration with Titan Media, The Rough Line.
Challenges, opportunities and the future of porn.
The bareback phenomenon.
A More Nuanced Position.

Be sure to visit Tony on his kick-ass site HERE!

See a slideshow of Tony & friends at work and play.

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November 4, 2009June 24, 2018

Cunning Minx, Part 2 – Podcast #165 – 11/04/09

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Hey sex fans,

Sheeee’s BACK! That’s right, kids; the master (or mistress, if you please) of all things polyamory — the delightful and oh so wise, Cunning Minx, is here again to finish the conversation we began at this time last week.

Gauging from the comments I’ve received about last week’s podcast, you’ve been chomping on the bit, as have I, for her speedy return with more of her exceptional Sex EDGE-U-cation.

But wait, did you somehow miss Part 1 of this insightful lesson on polyamory? Well, not to worry, buckaroos! Last week’s podcast, like all my podcasts, is archived right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #163 and Voilà! But don’t forget to include the #sign when you search.

Minx and I discuss:

How poly differs from plural marriage and polygamy.
Blurred lines between poly and swinging.
Swinging a heterosexual phenomenon.
Social monogamy, pair bonding, and extra-pair coupling.
Evolving attitudes toward poly in the popular culture.
The connection between being poly and other sexual expressions.
Advice for coming out as poly.
Finding poly-friendly healing and helping professionals.
Poly resources: What, like, two girlfriends? and Polyamory In The News.

Visit Minx and poly friends on her outstanding website HERE!

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October 28, 2009June 24, 2018

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Cunning Minx – Podcast #163 – 10/28/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today I have the pleasure of welcoming an international celebrity; a woman I’ve admired, albeit from afar, for ages. She is a highly sought-after speaker on the subject of polyamory. That’s probably because, not only is she exceptionally well informed on the topic, she also has a wicked sense of humor. She is the founder polyweekly.com and host of its wildly popular podcast series. One, I might add, that has been running continuously for nearly 5 years. That, my friends, is staying power!

My guest is none other than the charming and vivacious, Cunning Minx. If you know anything about polyamory, you will at least recognize her name. However, it’s much more likely that you are a huge fan of this amazing woman, just like me.

I happily turn the tables on Minx in today’s program. Instead of assuming her traditional role as podcast host, she is my guest. And she adds her unique voice in the ever-growing chorus of prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles that we call the Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series.

Minx and I discuss:

The Pacific Northwest as a hotbed of perversion.
The Polyweekly podcasts; going strong since 2005.
Tales from the front of responsible non-monogamy from a pansexual, kink-friendly point of view.
Her private life and relationship with her ex, Graydancer.
Her site as a clearinghouse for all things poly.
How she got the name, Cunning Minx.
Dating within the poly community.
Some younger gay men’s perception of polyamory.
A working definition of polyamory.

Be sure to visit Minx on her informative, enriching and very entertaining website HERE!

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October 14, 2009June 24, 2018

Sophie Hirschfeld, Part 2 – Podcast #160 – 10/14/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with more mighty fine Sex EDGE-U-cation with my special guest, the beautiful, talented and oh so smart, Sophie Hirschfeld. As we learned last week, she is a plus-sized model, stripper, camgirl, phone sex actress and writer. And in this, Part 2, of our conversation, we continue our chat about her career as a sex worker, activist and educator.

You didn’t miss last week’s show did you? Shame on you if you did! But don’t get too down on yourself, because Part 1 of our chat is archived right there on my site. Simply use my site’s search function to your right. Type in Podcast #158 and presto! But hey, don’t forget to use the #sign when you search.

Sophie and I discuss:

Sex work and her intimate relationships
Components of sex work that don’t involve sex.
Sex work, part of the service industry.
Fantasy and role-play.
Sex work, a double-edged sword — empowering yet demanding.
Current economic conditions add to sex worker rolls.
How some women justify their sex work.
Lesbian-for-pay cam chicks.
Her encounters with the pizza boy!
What the general public can learn from sex workers.

You’re also gonna want to visit Sophie at her fabulous website HERE!

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October 7, 2009June 24, 2018

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Sophie Hirschfeld – Podcast #158 – 10/07/09

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Hey sex fans,

I have something truly extraordinary in store for you. As you know this Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series takes a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative lifestyles. We touch on topics both familiar and exotic. And I chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Well then, today, we add yet another unique voice to this growing chorus. I have the distinct pleasure of introducing you to my special guest, the beautiful, talented and oh so smart, Sophie Hirschfeld. She is a plus-sized model, a stripper, a camgirl, a phone sex actress and a writer. But I think she’s best described as a philosopher of sex. Oh, I should also mention that she is absolutely hilarious too.

We will be talking about her career as a sex worker, as an activist and as an educator. You don’t want to miss a moment of this, sex fans!

Sophie and I discuss:

Where sex and science collide.
Magnus Hirschfeld and Sidonie-Gabrielle Colette.
Being an erotic entertainer.
Which is the oldest profession?
Getting into the sex industry.
Economic considerations of sex work.
Sex work on the front lines of sex education.
Her sex work and her intimate relationships.
The power of dirty words.

Be sure to visit Sophie at her fabulous website HERE!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.

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September 23, 2009June 24, 2018

Claire Adams, Part 2 — Podcast #155 — 09/23/09

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Hey sex fans,

The amazing Claire Adams returns with more of her special brand of Sex EDGE-U-cation. This is Part 2 of our chat and we’ll be discussing a lot of things including her bondage porn career.

As you know, in this podcast series we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles; and chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world. And no one fits this bill better than Claire.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this insightful discussion look for last week’s podcast #153. Simply use my site’s search function in the sidebar to your right. Type in Podcast #153, but don’t forget the # sign.

Claire and I discuss:

Fem-Dom — male-submission.
The intricacies of Bondage Porn.
Bondage as a means to an end and as an end in itself.
Her role preferences for Dom or sub.
The corresponding highs and lows of each role.
Endorphins and adrenaline.
Top-drop and bottom-drop.
Archetypes and predispositions.
The need for chemistry with potential play partners.
Her sexual heroes.

For more of Claire visit her on one of her professional sites: clairebondage.com, petitekink.com Or her rope site vintagerope.com and her Master, Damon Pierce’s site: slavetobondage.com.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.

DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

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September 21, 2009June 24, 2018

Leanne Bell Returns — Podcast #154 — 09/21/09

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Hey sex fans,

It’s the Equinox everybody! The relentless march of time brings us yet another change in the seasons. Isn’t it amazing? It seems like the solstice was only a few weeks ago. Well it’s autumn here in the northern hemisphere, and that’s my favorite season. So I’m looking forward to what’s to come. I hope you feel the same.

As you know, last week I had the pleasure of introducing you to a superb photographer from Ontario Canada, Leanne Bell . This is Part 2 of our chat for The Erotic Mind series. Where we converse with noted erotic artists of every stripe in an effort to uncover something of the creative process involved in this specialized art form.

If you somehow missed Part 1, there’s no need to worry. You’ll just have to look for last week’s show, podcast #152. And you can do that by using my site’s search function in the sidebar to your right. Type in Podcast #152 and presto! But don’t forget the # sign.

Leanne and I discuss:

Being a female photographer who shoots women.
The feedback she gets from her models.
Who is her audience.
The importance of the visual.
How she got her start as a photographer; as a photographer of nudes.
Shooting with her husband.
Where she finds her models.
The future of BodyInMind.com.

And for more of Leanne’s thoughts and vision, I encourage you to visit her website HERE. And from there, you’ll be able to link through to her other sites, including the thought provoking: superbeauty.org

See a slideshow of some of Leanne’s work. Click on the thumbnails below.

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Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.

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September 16, 2009June 24, 2018

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Claire Adams — Podcast #153 — 09/16/09

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Hey sex fans,

As I mentioned at the beginning of Monday’s podcast, over the next two weeks, and on both Mondays and Wednesdays, I will be featuring two absolutely amazing women in my podcasts. Both of these very talented women are taking a lead role in helping change our society’s perception of female sexuality and the gift of physical beauty. And each is doing it from what might, at first glance, appear to be the polar opposite of the other. But I believe appearances can be deceiving.

On Monday I introduced you to the ultimate photographer of the female nude, Leanne Bell, as part of The Erotic Mind series. Today, as part of my Sex EDGE-U-cation series, I have the pleasure of welcoming the internationally renowned teacher, BDSM advocate and on camera performer, Pro-Dom, pro-sub, bondage master, and video director, Claire Adams. She’s here to share something of her amazing life with us.

Both of my guests are extraordinarily passionate women who are completely immersed in their work. And their fervor is infused by a philosophy of empowerment and the beauty of women as full-fledged sexual beings. These podcasts are not to be missed!

Claire and I discuss:

Her real life as a rope bottom, submissive and slave.
ClaireBondage.com — a unique mix of porn and BDSM.
Bondage games and predicament bondage.
Being a collared sub,
RACK — Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
Claire the contortionist.
How se began her life in kink.
Damon & Claire, purveyors of high quality rope kits.
Her life as a Pro-Dom and her ability to switch between Dom and sub roles.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.

DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

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September 14, 2009June 24, 2018

The Erotic Mind of Leanne Bell — Podcast #152 — 09/14/09

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Hey sex fans,

Over the next two weeks, and in both of my podcast series on Mondays and Wednesdays, I will be featuring two absolutely amazing women. Both of these very talented women are taking a lead role in helping change our society’s perception of female sexuality and the gift of physical beauty. And each is doing it from what might, at first glance, appear to be the polar opposite of the other. I love my work! You’ll just have to tune in on both days to see what I mean.

Today I have the honor of introducing you to an exquisite photographer from Ontario Canada. We scrutinize The Erotic Mind of Leanne Bell. She, along with her equally talented husband, Dwayne, takes the photography of women to a new level of simplicity and sophistication. They unabashedly celebrate female physical beauty in the most extraordinary and riveting way. It’s as if they dress their models in nudity. You won’t want to miss a moment of this intriguing conversation.

Leanne and I discuss:

Her photography being both eye candy and mind candy.
The apparent contradiction of nudity and moral values.
The art of poising her models in everyday situations.
Nudity as an organic part of the photograph.
Cultural opposition to celebrating female physical beauty.
The gift of beauty and how it is often denigrated.

See a slideshow of some of Leanne’s work. Click on the thumbnails below.

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Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.

DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

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August 19, 2009June 24, 2018

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Lady HotchKiss – Podcast #146 – 08/19/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we travel to Atlanta, GA for some mighty fine Sex EDGE-U-cation. We chat with an amazing woman. She’s pretty as all get out, but don’t let her sweet looks fool you. She is the consummate Fem Domme, I mean right down to the marrow in her bones. But if that’s not enough to turn your crank, she has a multitude of facets to her delightful personality, not least among them being a domestic goddess. And she actually made Dr Dick blush. Not everyone can do that!

I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming the renowned and nationally respected dominatrix, Lady HotchKiss.

In this series of podcasts we are looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. We investigate topics both familiar and exotic. And we chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Lady HotchKiss and I will be exploring all sorts of interesting topics including her idyllic family life with her two slaves. This is edgy and thought provoking stuff, sex fans. You don’t want to miss a moment of this.

Lady HotchKiss and I discuss:

Her 24/7 life as a Dom.
The psychological dimensions of having two slaves.
The prevalence of the Fem/Dom archetype in fashion and the popular culture.
Being a domestic goddess.
M/s protocols.
The symbiotic relationship between Master and slave.
Bottom/sub/slave; not just a question of semantics.

Be sure to visit Lady HotchKiss at her websites HERE and HERE!

See a slideshow of the fabulous Lady HotchKiss at work and play.

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Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.

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August 12, 2009June 25, 2018

Chris Yosef, Part 2 – Podcast #144 – 08/12/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with Part 2 of my conversation with Chris Yosef. And this is part of my Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series, don’t cha know. It’s where we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles.

Part 1 of this chat with Chris was so freakin popular it broke all download records for any podcast during its first week after its posting. Of course I made my mother and her bridge club listen to it over and over to rack up the numbers. Just kidding!

If you some how missed Part 1 of this interesting discussion look for Podcast #142. Use my site’s search function to your right — type in Podcast #142, and presto! But don’t forget to include the # sign.

Chris and I discuss:

The Dom/sub archetype.
Is there such a thing as Dom/sub pheromones?
His far-flung poly-family and the pressures of being so high profile.
Power play with both women and men.
Chris & Tony in the movies.
The Rough Line; real players with an accent on safe sex.

And for an up close and personal view of my guest and his polyamorous family, visit Chris on his blog HERE!

See a slideshow of Chris & friends at work and play.

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Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.

DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

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July 1, 2009June 25, 2018

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Debra Christina Darling – Podcast #135 – 07/01/09

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Hey sex fans,

And now for something completely different. Ya’ll know how through this Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series, we’ve been looking at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles, right? And how we’ve been chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world, right?

Well then, today we take another walk on the wild side. I bring you Part 1 of my conversation with a true original. My guest is the one and only Debra Christina Darling.

Debra self-identifies as a straight drag queen. That’s right you heard me; he’s a straight man who crossdresses, and has done so for most of his life. But what’s so special about that? Lots of straight men crossdress. This is true! But few are as “out there” and as willing to challenge some of the popular notions of sex and gender held by both those inside, and outside, the crossdressing community. I can assure you sex fans, Debra has balls and the attitude to match; thus the drag queen designation, don’t cha know.

You won’t want to miss a minute of this exceptional discussion!

Debra and I discuss:

Crossdressing vs. transvestism.
Her own personal journey and her activism.
Famous crossdressers in history.
Reasons why people crossdress, and the challenges.
The sexual charge of gender specific clothing.
Common myths of crossdressing.
Advice for parents of crossdressing kids.
Male crossdressing / female crossdressing, the double standard.

Debra shares with us several crossdressing resources and invites you to check them out. The Esprit Conference, Karen Williams’ site, The Emerald City and The Ingersoll Center.

See a slideshow of current and historical crossdressers.

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Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.

DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

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June 24, 2009June 25, 2018

Monk, Part 2 – Podcast #133 – 06/24/09

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Hey sex fans,

We’re back with more fun with Dick and Jane Monk of TwistedMonk.com. And we’re not just having fun either, no siree! (Although you’d never know it from all the giggling going on.) No buckaroos, this is actually some serious Sex EDGE-U-cation.

You see, my conversation with Monk is part of our look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. As you know I’m chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world in the hopes of gaining some perspective on edgy sex. And that’s why this exceptional bondage performance artist is here again this week.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this amazingly insightful discussion look for last week’s podcast #131 on my Podcast Page. You’ll find a tab for that page at the top of this page. Or you can use my site’s search function. Just type in Podcast #131 and don’t forget the # sign.

Monk and I discuss:

The edgier side of Monk.
The versatility of human sexual response.
The cultural conflicts of kink.
His professional Dom persona.
His sexual heroes.
His polyamorous private life.

Monk invites you to enter his world and visit him at his website HERE!

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June 10, 2009June 25, 2018

John and Deanna, Part 2 – Podcast #129 – 06/10/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we’re back at Seattle’s very own Sharma Center with its oh so charming Executive inkbutt Directors, John and Deanna. And we’re all together to bring you Part 2 of our chat about Swinging, Polyamory and Open Relationships.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this insightful discussion look for last week’s podcast #127 on the Dr Dick’s Podcast Page. You’ll find that tab at the top of this page. Or you can use my site’s search function. Just type in Podcast #127 and don’t forget the # sign.

This is part of my Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series, don’t cha know. Where we take a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles; and chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

John and Deanna and I discuss:

The importance of communication in swinging and polyamory.
Some advice for novice swingers.
The prevalence of female bisexuality in the lifestyle.
Fetish expressions in swinging.
Dealing with jealousy.
Their sexual heroes.

Be sure to visit John and Deanna at the Sharma Center’s website HERE!

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.

DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!

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June 3, 2009June 25, 2018

Sex EDGE-U-cation with John and Deanna – Podcast #127 – 06/03/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today we take another audio field trip. I have the distinct pleasure of introducing the Co-Executive Directors of the amazing Sharma Center right here in beautiful downtown Seattle.

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John and Deanna welcome us to the center, show us around, talk about themselves, their lives together; we discuss polyamory, swinging and the sex positive mission of the Sharma Center.

This oh so charming and insightful couple add their voices to this Sex EDGE-U-cation series. As you know, in these podcasts, we’re taking a look at the world of fetish sex, kink and alternative sexual lifestyles. And we are chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world. And John and Deanna fit that bill exceptionally well.

John and Deanna and I discuss:

Swinging, Polyamory and Open Relationships; what’s alike about them and what’s different.
Some common terms used by those in the lifestyle.
The education and enrichment mission of the Sharma Center.
Coming out as a sexual minority.
Her activities, including her double sessions and private lessons.
Personal morality v. the morality of the dominant culture.

Be sure to visit them at the Sharma Center’s website HERE!

See a slideshow of the Sharma Center. Click on the thumbnails below.

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