Sex Advice With An Edge
Name: Nathan Gender: Male Age: 37 Location: Dallas I’m a married guy with a great wife and 3 beautiful kids. A couple of weeks ago, I went to a masseuse I found on Craigslist. I don’t have a lot of experience with massage and thought I would be safe going to a guy instead of …
By Ed Yong The media is hyping a study that doesn’t do what it says it does. This week, a team from the University of California, Los Angeles claimed to have found several epigenetic marks—chemical modifications of DNA that don’t change the underlying sequence—that are associated with homosexuality in men. Postdoc Tuck Ngun presented the …
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Dear sex fans, I realize this is a bit off topic for this blog, but I want to acknowledge the death of famed British neurologist and author, Oliver Sacks. In February, he wrote an op-ed in The New York Times revealing that he was in the late stages of terminal cancer, after earlier melanoma in his …
Name: Megan Gender: Female Age: 29 Location: Toronto I’m a new mother and this is my first child. He was born 3 weeks ago, but I am still enthralled with the miracle of it all. So far motherhood has been pretty wonderful. Sure I’m tired, but just holding my son in my arms makes me …
What follows is an exchange I had recently with a young Catholic Canadian man. Hi Dr. Wagner My Name is Jack, I am a catholic teenager who is wondering if the act of masturbation is still considered to be a sin. Also is it really considered to be gravely disordered and always morally wrong? I …
Name: Janet Gender: Female Age: 18 Location: Reno, Nevada I’ve never performed oral sex on a man before and now I am with a new man and he sometimes hints that he would like me to go down on him. But I’m scared to do so because I don’t really know what to do or …
I got email from a friend of mine that I haven’t had contact with for ages. We worked together on a couple projects in the past so I was delighted to hear from him. What follows is the exchange we had concerning his love interest. (All names have been changed.) I share all of this …
Here’s something unusual. Just last month we heard from Roxie, a crossdresser at a crossroads. Today, another crossdresser. That’s what’s so unusual, two in one month. Maybe it’s something in the stars. Anyway, our fabulous friend here has a bit of the ennui. Name: Mariah Gender: Male Age: 23 Location: Brewster NY I have been …
And now for one of our regular, semi-obligatory Meth-related questions. I get at least a half dozen of these questions a month. And each and every one of them breaks my heart. I know nothing about the fellow writing me; I don’t know where he lives or his age. I don’t suppose it really matters, …
We interrupt our winter holiday to bring you the special Product Review Friday. On this the last Friday of the year, it’s time to announce this year’s Best Products List. We have four categories this year — Best Product or Toy for Men; Best Product or Toy for Women; Best Product or Toy for Couples …
Name: Jake Gender: Male Age: 16 Location: NM Can u get more guys to tell about mutual masturbation stories? And how I can get my friends (both straight) to do it with me? OK, I’ll ask my audience to send us stories about their mutual masturbation experiences. Hey guys, and guys and gals, here’s what …
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Name: Deborah Gender: female Age: 36 Location: Rome I like your site very much. Thank you for some much honesty. I have a question; do open relationships really work? Well gee, thanks for your kind words, darlin’; I appreciate it. To your question about open relationships, I guess that depends on the maturity level of …
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Name: r68tool Gender: Male Age: 52 Location: Montana Doc, I have been an insulin-dependent diabetic for 25 years. I’m also a post-operative kidney transplant recipient. I have not been able to achieve nor maintain any kind of erection for the past 19 years. I have visited several urologists, but they have been useless. I am …
Hey DR Well, I don’t know where to start, my name is Todd I’m 21 and from Eugene Or. I need to know if feeling the way I do is OK? Well I’ve had a thing for voyeurism and BDSM for a some time now. I guess it started out by me just liking to …
Name: Allie Gender: Female Age: 18 I feel kinda silly asking a complete stranger this, but here goes. I’m a pretty normal 18year old female. I’m in my freshman year at a college in upstate New York. I’ve had a few boyfriends over the years, nothing really serious though. Lately I’ve been seeing a lot …
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