What Happens To Men Who Stay Abstinent Until Marriage?

by Sarah Diefendorf Seattle Seahawks quarterback Russell Wilson and his girlfriend, the singer Ciara, recently announced plans to remain sexually abstinent until marriage. It was a vow that came as a surprise to many. After all, sexual purity is a commitment that is historically expected of, associated with – even demanded of – women. However, …

Mistress Matisse is Doing the Lord’s Work on Behalf of Sex Workers

By Noah Berlatsky At the end of July, Neal Falls booked an appointment with a sex worker named Heather in West Virginia. He planned to kill her, as police believe he may have murdered as many as nine other sex workers in Ohio, Illinois and Nevada. But with Heather he failed. But with Heather, finally, …

Trouble Down Below

Name: Marcus Gender: Male Age: 20 Location: New Jersey I have a problem that is really fucking with my head, causing all sorts of performance anxiety and, long story short; I’m still a virgin at age 20. And because of it, a few failed sexual encounters. I can get a raging boner when I’m wacking …

The Lady Is A Tramp

Name: Paul Gender: Male Age: 32 Location: Seattle I recently discovered that my GF has been cheating on me. She wants me to forgive her but it’s been really hard. Just dealing with the fact that it happened is overwhelming. It feels like I could never forgive her. I don’t know if there’s a solution …

Hot Or Not

Name: Zoey Gender: Female Age: 40 Location: Seattle Hello I was surprised when my husband said our sex was just ok. I was skipping along thinking it was great. Now I feel stupid. I asked what I could do to make it better, but he didn’t give me any suggestion. Can you help me understand …

Mastering Masturbation – The finer points of Jacking and Jilling Off

A Special Workshop with Yours Truly! When: 03/27/14 — 7PM to 9PM Where: Foundation For Sex Positive Culture — 1608 15th Ave W.  Seattle, WA 98119  —  The Annex Who: Anyone 18+ with ID Cost at the Door: $25 Advance prices: $20 for Individuals, $35 for Couples and $50 for Triads. Purchase your tickets HERE! …

Sobriety & Sex

Name: Gregg Gender: Male Age: 40 Location: Seattle Since getting sober now almost 8 years ago I am very tense about sex and I feel as though I have lost my mojo. I am unable to relax and be intimate with a man and I am thinking I need an intimacy coach or sex coach, …

Foreplay – Making a Meal of Appetizers

Special Valentine’s Day Workshop with Yours Truly! When:   02/14/14 — 7PM to 9PM Where:   Foundation For Sex Positive Culture — 1608 15th Ave W. Bldg B, Seattle, WA 98119 Who:   Anyone 18+ with ID Cost at the Door:   $25       Advance prices:   $20 for Individuals, $35 for Couples and $50 for Triads. Purchase your tickets HERE! …