Sex Advice With An Edge
By Charlotte Shane As a thoroughly modern straight woman, I understand the political allure of demanding that a man go down on me. To insist on sexual pleasure—empowering! To tell a man to put his face in my ostensibly shameful genitals—transgressive! The vision of a woman, at long last, being the one to authoritatively order …
Name: Roy Gender: Male Age: 25 Location: Germany Sir, I’m started masturbating for 11yrs. Sometimes I’ll masturbate twice a day I can’t stop this habit. Will it ill affect me in future? Well Roy, I don’t think you have anything to worry about. Even beating off twice a day will not cause you harm. On …
By Jim Pfaus A psychologist explains why sex addiction therapy is more about faith than facts, as told to Tierney Finster Self-labeled sex addicts often speak about their identities very clinically, as if they’re paralyzed by a scientific condition that functions the same way as drug and alcohol addiction. But sex and porn “addiction” are …
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by Martha Kempner Masturbation is such an under-appreciated form of sexual activity. It has been blamed in urban legends for everything from hairy palms to lack of productivity, and has a reputation of being reserved for those who can’t find anyone else to have sex with them. But that’s just not true. Most people masturbate. It feels good. …
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By Male Survivors Trust Slowly but surely, the common myth held that sexual abuse/rape happens to women only is fading, but when a man is sexually assaulted or raped, and grows up believing that myth, he feels even more isolated and alone. This page tackles some of the issues that are rarely talked about, yet …
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Name: Jen Gender: female Age: 59 Location: North Dakota I’m a widow and I am so sad. The fellow I’m going with, I really love him, but I can’t have an orgasm with him. I was able to have an orgasm with my husband who is passed away. And I can when I am playing …
What follows is an exchange I had recently with a young Catholic Canadian man. Hi Dr. Wagner My Name is Jack, I am a catholic teenager who is wondering if the act of masturbation is still considered to be a sin. Also is it really considered to be gravely disordered and always morally wrong? I …
First Name: Sam Age: 22 Gender: Male Location: North Carolina, USA Wow, where do I even begin…. I am a 22-year-old gay male and believe that I may have SOME form of erectile dysfunction. I emphasize “some” because it is possible for me to get hard, firm erections, but I’m ALWAYS by myself when I …
Name: Dave Gender: male Age: 40 Location: Wisconsin I have a boyfriend that I love very much. We have been together for over 6 years and we care for one another very much. The problem is that we never have sex. The last time was probably two years ago and that time he just took …
Name: Barbara Gender: Female Age: 48 Location: Santa Cruz, CA I’ve been with my current lover for 5 years and I dearly love him. A couple of years ago he had hemorrhoid surgery and was in the hospital for a month. When he got home he refused to have sex with me but once a …
A friend of mine, who is writing a book about male sexuality for women, asked me if I could be her go-to-guy for a bunch of questions she had about pleasuring a man which she wants to include in her book. I think it is only fair that you, my loyal audience, should get this …
A Special Workshop with Yours Truly! When: 03/27/14 — 7PM to 9PM Where: Foundation For Sex Positive Culture — 1608 15th Ave W. Seattle, WA 98119 — The Annex Who: Anyone 18+ with ID Cost at the Door: $25 Advance prices: $20 for Individuals, $35 for Couples and $50 for Triads. Purchase your tickets HERE! …
Continue reading “Mastering Masturbation – The finer points of Jacking and Jilling Off”
Hello sex fans, It’s Product Review Friday! We welcome back the award-winning Fun Toys today. As you probably recall, their fabulous G-Vibe made our Best Adult Products List For 2013. So let’s see what they have in store for us today. And for that we turn to Dr Dick Review Crew member, Christa for her …
Name: Heather Gender: Female Age: 36 Location: USA I have been married for 10 years. I told my husband 6 years ago that I was not physically attracted to him anymore. I stopped wanting sex from him, because he just turned me off. No matter what he does — cleaning, cooking, running me a bath, …
Today I present a handful of concerns from the sexually worrisome. Name: Michael Gender: Male Age: Location: How does one prepare a solution to be used for a male anal douche? Warm water is all you need. Never use soap. Some men add lemon juice or vinegar (1-2 Tbs per quart) of the warm water. …
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