“Kink” Confronts the Challenge of Turning Sex Into Literature
By Katy Waldman “I’ve been kneeling here about ten minutes in the sheer black blouse, the crotchless panties. I don’t dare get up long enough to check my makeup. My back is straight, and my palms and cunt are trembly. The motion-sensor light outside the house blinks on, and then the door swings open.” So …
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Sex Workers’ Voices
— 10 Books About Sex Work by Sex Workers By River H. Kero Sex work is a controversial topic even in the most liberal circles. The conversation can vary from ethics, to feminism, to the law, and more. Issues of stigma and criminalization are the realities of sex workers all around the world. Furthermore, sex …
What’s the difference between sexual abuse, sexual assault, sexual harassment and rape?
By Sarah L. Cook, Lilia M. Cortina & Mary P. Koss [T]he terms “sexual abuse,” “sexual assault,” “sexual harassment” – and even “rape” – crop up daily in the news. We are likely to see these terms more as the #MeToo movement continues. Many people want to understand these behaviors and work to prevent them. …
Backdoor Action
Name: Leonel Gender: Male Age: 32 Location: DC How much wear and tear does anal sex cause to the rectum? Are there long-term hazards other than the chance of infection from poor hygiene? [A]s we all know by now, ass play is not just for the gays any more. And while there have been strong …
Chronically Dry Vagina, Oh MY!
As long as habit and routine dictate the pattern of living, new dimensions of the soul will not emerge. — Henry van Dyke Name: Victoria Gender: Age: 22 Location: San Diego Dear Dr Dick, I love sex with my boyfriend. It is great but sometimes it can be a real pain. I can’t seam to …
The Joys of Muff Diving
Name: Carol Gender: Female Age: 28 Location: Montreal I like oral sex, but my new BF doesn’t know what he’s doing down there. He’s really sweet and I like him a lot. Unfortunately, he thinks he’s like this really great lover when actually he sucks…and not in a good way. I know he reads your …
Don’t Be Afraid of Your Vagina
By Nell Frizzel Lying across a turquoise rubber plinth, my legs in stirrups, a large blue sheet of paper draped across my pubes (for “modesty”), a doctor slowly pushes a clear plastic duck puppet up my vagina and, precisely at that moment, Total Eclipse of the Heart comes on over the radio and it’s hard …
What does is all mean?
Name: Jane Gender: Female Age: 23 Location: Vancouver. BC When my boyfriend and I have sex, there’s a 50/50 chance that he will put his penis between my butt cheeks and hump me that way until he cums. (It’s just intense rubbing, no anal penetration). Even though I don’t feel like I’m getting any pleasure …
The Little Engine That Could
Name: Terri Gender: Female Age: 24 Location: ND I’m having a problem with knowing when I am feeling an orgasm. I feel like I have to fake it around my husband because I am unsure. Sometimes when I’m alone I just feel like I have to go to the bathroom so I stop myself and …
How things work down there
Name: Samantha Gender: female Age: 17 Location: Kansas City, KS I’m with this boy and his penis is too big. Like it literally hits the end of my vagina and there’s still an inch or two hanging out. I’m not sure why, but when he want to go all the way in it hurts. It …
Too Big!
Name: Jordan Gender: Male Age: 18 Location ? Hi, I’m a young male aged 18, and recently have become sexually active. I revealed my penis to my girlfriend for the first time and she said that I was too big for her. I am 9in when erect, and 4.5in in girth. Is this too big …
Messin’ Around
Name: Troy Gender: Male Age: Location: Sir, My girlfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. She sometimes has experienced that her clit gets sore after we mess around. She also felt some pain when we have sex not right away but late on almost like a muscle soreness. She has had regular …
First Time, Every Time
Name: Julie Gender: Female Age: 26 Location: Kentucky I am a virgin. I am also just asking. How do I keep my first time from hurting? Some say lubrication in excess, but I am very small. Yep, lots of lube is important — first time and every time. But there is so much more you …
A potpourri of poignant problems
Name: Catherine Joanne Gender: Female Age: 42 Location: Canada, Alberta I am in a very loving, understanding, compassionate relationship, which I have been waiting for for some time now. The only thing is he stimulates my emotional side in every way, but in the bedroom he is not as sexual as previous partners I have …
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