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		<title>You’re The Top</title>
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It’s Product Review Friday once again.  And today we are lucky enough to have another LELO treasure for you to admire.
Dr Dick Review Crew member, Brad discovers the meaning of a Pleasure Object.
BILLY —— $129.00
Brad
DAMN, this is the most expensive sex toy…I mean Pleasure Object I’ve ever seen.  Before I got [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey sex fans,</p>
<p>It’s Product Review Friday once again.  And today we are lucky enough to have another <a title="LELO" href="http://en.lelo.com/" target="_blank">LELO</a> treasure for you to admire.</p>
<p><strong>Dr Dick Review Crew</strong> member, <strong>Brad</strong> discovers the meaning of a Pleasure Object.</p>
<p><a title="BILLY" href="http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=homme&amp;groupName=BILLY" target="_blank"><strong>BILLY</strong></a> —— $129.00</p>
<p><strong>Brad</strong><br />
DAMN, this is the most expensive sex toy…I mean Pleasure Object I’ve ever seen.  Before I got hooked up with the Dr Dick Review Crew I used to make all my own sex toys.  You’d be amazed what you can do with some bubble wrap, Jell-O, a battery-powered toothbrush or a bar of soap.  Now that I’m an official review crew member I’m getting the education of my life.  You’ll probably laugh, but before I got this <a title="BILLY" href="http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=homme&amp;groupName=BILLY" target="_blank"><strong>BILLY</strong></a> I had never hear of <a title="LELO" href="http://en.lelo.com/" target="_blank">LELO</a>.</p>
<p>I knew I was in for a treat just by looking at the packaging.  Everything about it says elegant.  <a title="BILLY" href="http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=homme&amp;groupName=BILLY" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-4177" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="Billy_deep_blue_mv1" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Billy_deep_blue_mv1.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="350" /></a>The message on the package, translated into multiple languages, reads:<a title="BILLY" href="http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=homme&amp;groupName=BILLY" target="_blank"><strong>BILLY</strong></a> is a gentleman’s G-spot massager for those who wish to explore a more energetic sensation within. Benefiting from an ergonomic design tailored precisely to the male form, he offers sustained control through five differing stimulation modes. Such versatility achieves breathtaking results, where vibrations may be kept mild during arousal, before increasing to the levels that excite his user most. Whether enjoyed individually or with a partner, <a title="BILLY" href="http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=homme&amp;groupName=BILLY" target="_blank"><strong>BILLY</strong></a> is a highly discreet and satisfying companion, always primed to deliver the most intense and varied feelings of release.</p>
<p>That a fancy way of sayin’ — ya pop this sucker in your ass for a groovy  prostate massage.  Hey, can I ask you people to stop referring to a dude’s prostate as “a gentleman’s G-spot”?  I think a P-spot is pretty fuckin lame, but “a gentleman’s G-spot” is absolutely ridiculous.</p>
<p>Now that I have that off my back I can get back to telling you about <a title="BILLY" href="http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=homme&amp;groupName=BILLY" target="_blank"><strong>BILLY</strong></a>.  It’s a relatively petite thing as far as insertables go.  6.5” total length; 4” insertable length; 3.25&#8243; circumference and weighs in at just about a pound.  This is clearly intended for the novice butt pirate.</p>
<p>It has a ridge on the velvety-smooth silicone insertable part that is designed to make <a title="BILLY" href="http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=homme&amp;groupName=BILLY" target="_blank"><strong>BILLY</strong></a> safe for ass play.  The whole toy will never accidentally slip all the way in your bum, which is a fear that many guys new to ass play have.  I know I did.</p>
<p>The controls for <a title="BILLY" href="http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=homme&amp;groupName=BILLY" target="_blank"><strong>BILLY</strong></a> are located in the handle, which is made of hard plastic.  It has 7 power settings and 5 vibe patterns.  Steady vibration, three speeds of intermittent vibration and a wave setting where the vibration oscillates between gentle and stronger vibrations.  And the best thing is it’s rechargeable.  There’s this little port in the tip of the handle that accepts the recharging unit.  Pretty slick, huh?  My battery budget was gettin outta control.  It takes about 2 hours to fully charge.  And it’ll last about 4 hours on a full charge. It even lets you know when it is time to recharge. The control dial will glow red, instead of white when pushed.</p>
<p>You’ll have to use lube with this toy.  Trying to insert it anally without lube is just asking for trouble.  But be sure you use only a water-based lube.</p>
<p>Figuring out the four-quadrant controller can be a challenge.  For the life of me I couldn’t figure it out when first I tried.  I thought it was a good idea to run through the different speeds and intensities before I popped it in my ass.  But suddenly it just died. The white LED light was still on, but I couldn’t get it to vibrate.  I thought for sure I fucked up this expensive toy.  I put it away for a while so I could review the instructions.  On my second attempt, a couple hours later, it miraculously came back to life, but only slowly.  I have no idea what the fuck was up with that.  Freaked me out though.</p>
<p>Once I had <a title="BILLY" href="http://en.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=homme&amp;groupName=BILLY" target="_blank"><strong>BILLY</strong></a> in my hole, I really liked the feel of it.  But I had the damnedest time working the controller while it was in place.  The hard plastic handle and control button are impossible to hold on to or manipulate with lubed up fingers and hands.  And don’t even think about getting lube in the recharge port, because the thing will be toast for damn sure.<br />
<em>Full Review <a href="http://www.drdicksextoyreviews.com/2010/03/12/billy-by-lelo/" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a></em></p>
<p>ENJOY!</p>
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		<title>Sex Wisdom with Jesús Ángel García &#8211; Podcast #191 &#8211; 03/10/10</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 15:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
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Hey sex fans,
Ok, so here’s the deal.  As you know, I’m all about bringing you the very best interviews I can for all my podcast series.  Not to long ago I hooked up with this exceptional author who I think is absolutely perfect for The Erotic Mind series.  But midway through our [...]]]></description>
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<p>Hey sex fans,</p>
<p>Ok, so here’s the deal.  As you know, I’m all about bringing you the very best interviews I can <a title="badbadbad" href="http://www.badbadbad.net/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-4164" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="jesusangelgarcia pic1" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/jesusangelgarcia-pic1-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>for all my podcast series.  Not to long ago I hooked up with this exceptional author who I think is absolutely perfect for <a title="The Erotic Mind" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/category/the-erotic-mind/" target="_blank"><big><big><span style="font-family: georgia; color: #cc0000;">The Erotic Mind</span></big></big></a> series.  But midway through our conversation I realize that we are discussing stuff that would fit equally well in my <a title="SEX WISDOM" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/category/sex-wisdom/" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; color: #ffcc00;"><big><big>SEX WISDOM</big></big></span></a> series.</p>
<p>So what am I to do but officially declare our very first twofer!  Allow me to introduce you to <a title="badbadbad" href="http://www.badbadbad.net/" target="_blank"><strong>Jesús Ángel García</strong></a>, the remarkable author of the multimedia novel <a title="badbadbad" href="http://www.badbadbad.net/" target="_blank"><em>badbadbad</em></a>.  His novel can be read on many levels.  Those looking for a very engagingly and smutty erotic story will not be disappointed.  However, his work is also infused with profound insights into the philosophy and psychology of why we are sexual.  Getting to the marrow of this man and his complex novel is a sheer delight.  You won’t want to miss this, my friends.</p>
<p><strong><a title="badbadbad" href="http://www.badbadbad.net/" target="_blank"><strong>Jesús</strong></a></strong> and I discuss:</p>
<ul>
<li> How the man with such the heavenly name, <strong><a title="badbadbad" href="http://www.badbadbad.net/" target="_blank"><strong>Jesús Ángel</strong></a></strong>, come to write such a devilishly profane book.</li>
<li> Why he writes under a pen name and the derivation of that name.</li>
<li> Is it a memoir or is it fiction?</li>
<li> The multimedia nature of his novel.</li>
<li> The intent and origins of <em><a title="badbadbad" href="http://www.badbadbad.net/" target="_blank"><em>badbadbad</em></a></em>.</li>
<li> The prominence of religious imagery.</li>
<li> How psychological complexity is reflected in sexual expression.</li>
<li> His novel as a morality tale.</li>
</ul>
<p>Adding to the sexual tension of today’s show, <strong><a title="badbadbad" href="http://www.badbadbad.net/" target="_blank"><strong>Jesús</strong></a></strong> reads from <em><a title="badbadbad" href="http://www.badbadbad.net/" target="_blank"><em>badbadbad</em></a></em>.</p>
<p><strong><a title="badbadbad" href="http://www.badbadbad.net/" target="_blank"><strong>Jesús</strong></a></strong> invites you to visit him on his site <a title="badbadbad" href="http://www.badbadbad.net/" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a>! You’ll discover that his is the first novel to come with its own YouTube playlist.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="badbadbad" href="http://www.badbadbad.net/" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4165" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="badbadbad cover" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/badbadbad-cover.jpg" alt="" width="248" height="350" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000080;"><big><em>BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!</em></big></span></p>
<p>Check out <a title="lick-a-dee-split-connection" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/the-lick-a-dee-split-connection/" target="_blank"><strong><em>The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection</em></strong></a>. That’s Dr Dick’s toll <big><big>free</big></big> podcast voicemail <strong>HOTLINE</strong>. Don’t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.</p>
<p>Got a question or a comment?  Wanna rant or rave?  Or maybe you&#8217;d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at <strong>(866) 422-5680</strong>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000080;">DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I wanna take a moment to remind you to check out another great website in the Dr Dick family of sites.  It’s my new <a title="DDSTR.com" href="http://www.drdicksextoyreviews.com/" target="_blank">PRODUCT REVIEW</a> site — <a title="DDSTR.com" href="http://www.drdicksextoyreviews.com/" target="_blank">drdicksextoyreviews.com</a></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">That’s right, sex fans, now it’s so easy to see what hot and what’s not in the world of adult products.  I review of all kinds of adult related goodies — sex toys for sure, but also condoms, lubes, herbal products, fetish gear as well as educational and enrichment videos. DON’T MISS A SINGLE ONE!</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Look for the <a title="DDSTR.com" href="http://www.drdicksextoyreviews.com/" target="_blank">drdicksextoyreviews.com</a>.  You’ll be so glad you did.</p>
<p>Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: <a title="fleshjack" href="http://www.fleshjack.com/fj_video.php?link=2228" target="_blank"><strong>Fleshlight &amp; FleshJack</strong></a>.</p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Hey sex fans,

Ok, so herersquo;s the deal.  As you know, Irsquo;m all about bringing you the very best interviews I can for all my ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Hey sex fans,

Ok, so herersquo;s the deal.  As you know, Irsquo;m all about bringing you the very best interviews I can for all my podcast series.  Not to long ago I hooked up with this exceptional author who I think is absolutely perfect for The Erotic Mind series.  But midway through our conversation I realize that we are discussing stuff that would fit equally well in my SEX WISDOM series.

So what am I to do but officially declare our very first twofer!  Allow me to introduce you to Jesuacute;s Aacute;ngel Garciacute;a, the remarkable author of the multimedia novel badbadbad.  His novel can be read on many levels.  Those looking for a very engagingly and smutty erotic story will not be disappointed.  However, his work is also infused with profound insights into the philosophy and psychology of why we are sexual.  Getting to the marrow of this man and his complex novel is a sheer delight.  You wonrsquo;t want to miss this, my friends.

Jesuacute;s and I discuss:

	 How the man with such the heavenly name, Jesuacute;s Aacute;ngel, come to write such a devilishly profane book.
	 Why he writes under a pen name and the derivation of that name.
	 Is it a memoir or is it fiction?
	 The multimedia nature of his novel.
	 The intent and origins of badbadbad.
	 The prominence of religious imagery.
	 How psychological complexity is reflected in sexual expression.
	 His novel as a morality tale.

Adding to the sexual tension of todayrsquo;s show, Jesuacute;s reads from badbadbad.

Jesuacute;s invites you to visit him on his site HERE! Yoursquo;ll discover that his is the first novel to come with its own YouTube playlist.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection. Thatrsquo;s Dr Dickrsquo;s toll free podcast voicemail HOTLINE. Donrsquo;t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.

Got a question or a comment?  Wanna rant or rave?  Or maybe you'd just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
DONrsquo;T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!
I wanna take a moment to remind you to check out another great website in the Dr Dick family of sites.  Itrsquo;s my new PRODUCT REVIEW site mdash; drdicksextoyreviews.com
Thatrsquo;s right, sex fans, now itrsquo;s so easy to see what hot and whatrsquo;s not in the world of adult products.  I review of all kinds of adult related goodies mdash; sex toys for sure, but also condoms, lubes, herbal products, fetish gear as well as educational and enrichment videos. DONrsquo;T MISS A SINGLE ONE!
Look for the drdicksextoyreviews.com.  Yoursquo;ll be so glad you did.
Todayrsquo;s Podcast is bought to you by: Fleshlight #38; FleshJack.

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		<title>The Erotic Mind of Rob Clarke — Podcast #190 — 03/08/10</title>
		<link>http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2010/03/08/podcast-190/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 15:25:28 +0000</pubDate>
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Hey sex fans,
Today we continue The Erotic Mind series.  Only instead of a literary artist, like the last couple of weeks, we have an immensely talented visual artist joining us.  I have the pleasure of introducing you to Rob Clarke.
As you know, for nearly two years now I’ve been chatting with noted erotic [...]]]></description>
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<p>Hey sex fans,</p>
<p>Today we continue <a title="The Erotic Mind" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/category/the-erotic-mind/" target="_blank"><big><big><span style="font-family: georgia; color: #cc0000;">The Erotic Mind</span></big></big></a> series.  Only instead of a literary artist, like the last couple of weeks, we have an immensely talented visual artist joining us.  I have the pleasure of introducing you to <a title="Rob Clarke" href="http://robclarke.net/" target="_blank"><strong>Rob Clarke</strong></a>.<a title="Rob Clarke" href="http://robclarke.net/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-4152" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="The Painted Boy Gay Erotic Art Fair @ The Center 4/3/09" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/rob_clarke-217x300.jpg" alt="" width="217" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>As you know, for nearly two years now I’ve been chatting with noted erotic artists, both visual and literary, from all over the freakin world.  I started this podcast series as a means to uncovering something of the creative process involved in this specialized art form.  And I’m thrilled that many common threads are beginning to appear in these conversations.  For example, <strong><a title="Rob Clarke" href="http://robclarke.net/" target="_blank"><strong>Rob</strong></a></strong> approaches his work in much the same way as many of his illustrator peers that we’ve met in this series, but his perspective and the fruits of his erotic mind are uniquely his own.</p>
<p><strong><a title="Rob Clarke" href="http://robclarke.net/" target="_blank"><strong>Rob</strong></a></strong> and I discuss:</p>
<ul>
<li>Dogboy Scoot, the embodiment of the male animal.</li>
<li>His personal life and how he got his start as an artist.</li>
<li>1986, the year his erotic images begin to show up.</li>
<li>Being an artist and an illustrator.</li>
<li>Moving into animation.</li>
<li>Emerging trends in erotic comics.</li>
<li>Belonging to a community of fellow artists.</li>
<li>The erotic in art; the art in the erotic.</li>
</ul>
<p>Be sure to check out <strong><a title="Rob Clarke" href="http://robclarke.net/" target="_blank"><strong>Rob</strong></a></strong> and his delicious artwork, especially his newest creation — Dogboy Scoot, on his site <a title="Rob Clarke" href="http://robclarke.net/" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a>. And don&#8217;t forget to join his yahoo group.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff6600;">Click on the thumbnail images below to see a slideshow of some of <strong><a title="Rob Clarke" href="http://robclarke.net/" target="_blank"><strong>Rob</strong></a></strong>’s work.</span></p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Hey sex fans,

Today we continue The Erotic Mind series.  Only instead of a literary artist, like the last couple of weeks, we have an ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Hey sex fans,

Today we continue The Erotic Mind series.  Only instead of a literary artist, like the last couple of weeks, we have an immensely talented visual artist joining us.  I have the pleasure of introducing you to Rob Clarke.

As you know, for nearly two years now Irsquo;ve been chatting with noted erotic artists, both visual and literary, from all over the freakin world.  I started this podcast series as a means to uncovering something of the creative process involved in this specialized art form.  And Irsquo;m thrilled that many common threads are beginning to appear in these conversations.  For example, Rob approaches his work in much the same way as many of his illustrator peers that wersquo;ve met in this series, but his perspective and the fruits of his erotic mind are uniquely his own.

Rob and I discuss:

	Dogboy Scoot, the embodiment of the male animal.
	His personal life and how he got his start as an artist.
	1986, the year his erotic images begin to show up.
	Being an artist and an illustrator.
	Moving into animation.
	Emerging trends in erotic comics.
	Belonging to a community of fellow artists.
	The erotic in art; the art in the erotic.

Be sure to check out Rob and his delicious artwork, especially his newest creation mdash; Dogboy Scoot, on his site HERE. And don't forget to join his yahoo group.
Click on the thumbnail images below to see a slideshow of some of Robrsquo;s work.
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BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection. Thatrsquo;s Dr Dickrsquo;s toll free podcast voicemail HOTLINE. Donrsquo;t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.

Got a question or a comment?  Wanna rant or rave?  Or maybe you'd just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
DONrsquo;T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!
Look for all my podcasts on iTunes.  Yoursquo;ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And donrsquo;t forget to subscribe. I wouldnrsquo;t want you to miss even one episode.

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		<description><![CDATA[Name: Stanford
Gender: male
Age: 25
Location: Green Bay
I was wondering if you have any suggestions for a homemade dildo?
Do you actually want to craft a dildo yourself?  Or is this more a question about what might be readily available to safely bugger yourself with?
If you want to make one yourself, there are several &#8220;Make-your-own-dildo&#8221; kits out [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Name: <strong>Stanford</strong><br />
Gender: male<br />
Age: 25<br />
Location: Green Bay<br />
I was wondering if you have any suggestions for a homemade dildo?</p>
<p>Do you actually want to craft a dildo yourself?  Or is this more a question about what might be readily available to safely bugger yourself with?<a rel="attachment wp-att-4133" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2010/03/05/well-then/crochet-thumb-450x299-201/"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-4133" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="crochet-thumb-450x299-201" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/crochet-thumb-450x299-201.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a></p>
<p>If you want to make one yourself, there are several &#8220;Make-your-own-dildo&#8221; kits out there.  You can find them online.  They supply you with everything you need to make a latex dildo cast of your own dong.  And from that the dildo is made.  How fun!  But wait, what if you are princess tiny-meat?  Cloning your you own willie will satisfy no one, no how.  Unless you know someone with a more ample endowment that will lend you his hog for the mold, this is probably not the way for you to go.</p>
<p>A trip to the supermarket might be your next best bet.  People have been stuffing fruits and vegetables in every possible orifice for as long as there have been fruits and vegetables…and orifices to stuff.  Bananas, zucchini, corn cobs, cucumbers, and well the list goes on and on.  One word of caution, make sure that whatever your poppin’ in your pooper is long enough that you can keep hold of it while you are workin’ your magic.  You definitely don’t want it to let whatever slip past your sphincter and lodge itself inside your rectum.  There’s nothing more embarrassing than a trip to the emergency room to have someone fish whatever you got in there out of you bum.</p>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-4134" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2010/03/05/well-then/image017/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4134" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="image017" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/image017.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>If you’re the least bit competent as a woodworker you could fashion something pleasurable from a hardwood, like maple or oak.  The do-it-yourself craftsman will be able to make the exact size he needs and wants.  He’ll take pride in sanding, buffing and curing his creation with olive oil before use.</p>
<p>No woodturning tools?  Not to worry.  A trip to the local Homo Depot may be the answer.  Look for wooden dowels.  They come in many widths and lengths.  Since doweling is often made of a softer wood, the dildo craftsman will be able to round off the top of the dowel using a rasp with relative ease.  But because the wood is soft, he’ll have to seal his creation in a smooth varathane or polyurethane finish.  Never, ever insert uncured or unfinished wood.  Besides the danger of splinters, untreated wood is very porous and you’ll never get the damned thing clean after the first use.</p>
<p>Another word of caution; some people are allergic to various materials or polishes.  So test all materials first.</p>
<p>Here’s a dildo-making project just about anyone can do.  Make your own beanie baby dildo.  You will need several latex condoms, water based lube and whole dried beans or peas.  Take a condom fill it with the dried beans and/or peas and tie off the end.  Coat the condom with lube and slip it into another condom and tie that one off too.  If you want to be super-safe, add a third condom.  The beauty part of using dried peas or beans is that, should the condoms break while you’re pleasuring yourself and you lose some of the contents in your love cave, you’ll be able to eliminate them with ease with your next bowel movement.  And there’s nothing toxic in dried beans!<a rel="attachment wp-att-4135" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2010/03/05/well-then/image008/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-4135" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="image008" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/image008-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>But what if you want something more stiff?  Building a dildo out of modeling clay might be the answer. You can find this material at your local crafts store. You can be very creative with the shape and size.  You’ll also be able to flare the end of the thing so there won’t be a worry of it getting past your sphincter.  Before the clay dries, consider pressing dried beans into the shaft for some added texture.  Once your new phallus is completely dry you can finish it with a polyurethane seal.  However, I encourage you to use a condom over your newly created cock substitute.  Even with a sealed dildo like this one.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Name: <strong>Heidi</strong> &amp; <strong>Werner</strong><br />
Gender: couple<br />
Age: 32 &amp; 34<br />
Location: Arizona<br />
My husband and I have been married for 12 years, we love each other very much.  About five years into our marriage, while on a retreat for couples, we discovered we are both bisexual.  As a consequence we gave each other permission to explore our same-sex interests.  For the most part this has worked out really well.  At this point in our marriage, however, we’d like to move beyond the casual semi-furtive affairs we’ve been having and embrace polyamory.  Problem is we don’t know any other people who are living in successful polyamorous relationships.  Is polyamory a viable option even for a few lucky souls?</p>
<p>Congratulations on living a successful marriage, especially since you guys are taking such a non-traditional approach.  That can’t be easy.  I wish there was a way the two you could bottle whatever it is that you apparently have in spades that allows you to make such an honest assessment of yourselves and your marriage.  You must be remarkable people.  I’m so glad that you took the time to write.</p>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-4136" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2010/03/05/well-then/polyamory/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4136" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="polyamory" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/polyamory-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>As a matter of fact, I know a bunch of very successful, long-lasting polyamorous relationships.  Most are comprised of people already on the sexual fringe — queer folk, currant and former swingers and kinksters.  However, they all tend to keep the dimensions of their relationships relatively private.  It takes a lot of psychic energy to live polyamorously, exponentially more than in a traditional marriage. This tends to leave less psychic energy for flying in the face of the popular culture.  Of course the down side of this is there are, as you suggest, few good public role models for polyamory.</p>
<p>Connecting with other like-minded people is less of a challenge these days than in years past thanks to the marvels of the internets, don’t cha know.  And being bisexuals, as you are, my make things even easier.  I suppose you know this already, but for those in my audience who don’t, polyamory is not the same thing as swinging. Swinging is more about recreational or sport sex; partners having consensual casual sex with others, either other couples or individuals.  Swinging is also generally a heterosexual phenomenon.  Female bisexual behavior is allowed and even encouraged.  The same cannot be said about male bisexual behavior.  This seems like an unfortunate double standard to me, but in this respect swinging reflects traditional sexual mores.</p>
<p>Polyamory, on the other hand, connotes more of an emotional bond, a <a rel="attachment wp-att-4137" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2010/03/05/well-then/girls_kissing/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-4137" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="girls_kissing" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/girls_kissing-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>relationship that exceeds pure sport fucking.  But not surprisingly many polyamorous relationships evolve from more casual swinger connections.  So let’s not knock that.</p>
<p>If you both are seriously into polyamory you’ll have an easier time of it too.  The downfall of many budding polyamorists has to do with the reservations one or another in the couple may have about the lifestyle.  The one with reservations may play along for a while thinking that this new venture will grow on him/her, but it doesn’t.  Some folks are monogamous and it’s breed in the bone.  Others are non-monogamous, equally breed in the bone.  Trying to convert one or the other to an alternative way of thinking is simply not gonna happen.</p>
<p>The big bugaboo in any type of relationship will be jealousy.  You guys seem to have avoided that poison, and again congratulations.  The couples retreat you mentioned my have provided you the communication tools you needed to open yourselves to one another in an honest and forthright way.  These communication skills will be particularly useful in forming polyamorous relationships too.  Whatever the configuration of your future relationships, all parties must allow for and invite an honest and open exchange about passions, desires and needs.  And from time to time each individual in the polyamorous relationship will prioritize these things differently.  Expect lots of diversity.  For more about this see my friend, polyamorous proDOM, <strong>Mistress Matisse’s</strong> column <a title="Mistress Matisse" href="http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/control-tower/Content?oid=3486616&amp;hp" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a>!</p>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-4138" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2010/03/05/well-then/kiss002/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4138 alignleft" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="kiss002" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/kiss002-195x300.jpg" alt="" width="195" height="300" /></a>There’s no “one way” to be polyamorous. Some people express their polyamory by having one primary partnership with one or more satellite relationships. They prefer monogamy with one partner but have an open relationship with others. Some polyamorists live in triads or loosely structured groups.  Some people express their polyamory by having all partners and lovers as part of an extended family— raising kids together and taking care of elders together.  Strong polyamorous relationships carried a number of my closest friends through the worst of the AIDS crisis in the mid 80’s.   While you guys seem pretty clear on what you want for yourselves, you may want to be on the lookout for potential partners with incompatible passions needs and desires.</p>
<p>As we all know, a big part of effective communication in a relationship is exploring and expressing feelings.  Another part, one that is often overlooked, is the art of negotiation.  How do partners and lovers negotiate for what they need and want?  “I want to try something new with someone new.”  “My lover and I need some private time.” Mature people are flexible, but they also have healthy boundaries. Giving your partner the freedom to share him/herself intimately with others as he/she desires is easier when it is based on the guidelines that you and your partner agree to first.  Of course these will need to be readjusted from time to time as new situations evolve.</p>
<p>A secret to successful polyamory is working to maintain a strong primary partnership, in your case, with each other.  The more comfortable and secure you guys are with one another, the easier it will be for you to free one another up for others.  When the primary relationship is healthy and safe, the polyamorous relationship will add to the support structure, not diminishes it. <a rel="attachment wp-att-4139" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2010/03/05/well-then/bisex/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-4139" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="bisex" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/bisex-201x300.jpg" alt="" width="201" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>Interestingly enough, not all polyamorous relationships are sexual in nature.  For example, one person in the group relationship may have a sexual connection with another, while that person enjoys a platonic relationship with that someone else.</p>
<p>One thing for certain, you guys will have to decide what sort of people will be positive additions to your lives.  And that will entail a good deal of trial and error.  Like my daddy always used to say, “ya gotta walk through a lot of manure before you find the pony.”  Remember not everyone who aspires to polyamory is capable of it, nor is everyone one who is capable of being polyamorous suited to be with everyone else who is.</p>
<p>For more about this timely topic I refer you to the two podcasts I did with the insanely marvelous <strong>Cunning Minx</strong> of <a title="polyweekly" href="http://polyweekly.com/" target="_blank"><em>PolyWeekly</em></a>.  Look for them <a title="Cunning Minx" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2009/10/28/podcast-163/" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a> and <a title="Cunning Minx" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2009/11/04/podcast-165/" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a>!</p>
<p>Good luck ya&#8217;ll</p>
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		<title>Jeremy Edwards does Dr Dick!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 15:36:32 +0000</pubDate>
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Get a load of this! The delightfully entertaining master of erotica, Jeremy Edwards, talks trash with Dr Dick on his site — HERE.  (I guess this is his way of getting back at me for all the nice things I&#8217;ve done for him.  Like I always say, no good deed goes [...]]]></description>
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<p>Get a load of this! The delightfully entertaining master of erotica, <a title="jeremy edwards" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2008/11/03/podcast-86/" target="_blank">Jeremy <img class="alignright size-full wp-image-4126" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="RMSO_200" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/RMSO_200.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="312" />Edwards</a>, talks trash with Dr Dick on his site — <a title="jeremy edwards" href="http://jerotic.blogspot.com/2010/03/in-which-dr-dick-stops-podcasting-long.html" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a>.  (I guess this is his way of getting back at me for all the nice things I&#8217;ve done for him.  Like I always say, no good deed goes unpunished.)</p>
<p>All kidding aside, it&#8217;s an honor to be in such exalted company once again.<a title="jeremy edwards" href="../2008/11/03/podcast-86/" target="_blank">Jeremy </a> was my second guest in <a title="The Erotic Mind" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/category/the-erotic-mind/" target="_blank"><big><big><span style="font-family: georgia; color: #cc0000;">The Erotic Mind</span></big></big></a> podcast series, don’t cha know. And that was two and a half years ago, if you can believe that.  Since then, he’s gone on to become an even bigger and fatter success in the world of erotica.  He’s newly published erotic novel, <a title="Rock My Socks Off" href="http://www.xcitebooks.com/category-7/9781907016011.html" target="_blank"><em>Rock My Socks Off</em></a>, is receiving critical acclaim.  And I feel smarter just knowing him.</p>
<p>Be sure to visit <a title="jeremy edwards" href="../2008/11/03/podcast-86/" target="_blank">Jeremy </a> and check out the Dr Dick dish.</p>
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		<title>Mark Zedler, Part 2 &#8211; Podcast #189 &#8211; 03/03/10</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 16:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
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Hey sex fans,
We’re back with sex historian, Mark Zedler, and more of his fascinating SEX WISDOM.  This is Part 2 of our enlightening conversation about some of our culture’s sexual taboos.
If you somehow missed Part 1 of this thought-provoking expose, which premiered at this time last week, you’ll find it in the podcast archive [...]]]></description>
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<p>Hey sex fans,</p>
<p>We’re back with sex historian, <a title="Mark Zedler" href="http://www.thebacchanalian.com/" target="_blank"><strong>Mark Zedler</strong></a>, and more of his fascinating <a title="SEX WISDOM" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/category/sex-wisdom/" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; color: #ffcc00;"><big><big>SEX WISDOM</big></big></span></a>.  This is <big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;">Part 2</span></strong></big> of our enlightening conversation about some of our culture’s sexual taboos.<a title="Mark Zedler" href="http://www.thebacchanalian.com/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-4116" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="The Goddess and I" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/The-Goddess-and-I.jpg" alt="" width="287" height="431" /></a></p>
<p>If you somehow missed <big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;">Part 1</span></strong></big> of this thought-provoking expose, which premiered at this time last week, you’ll find it in the podcast archive here on my site.  All ya have to do is use the site’s search function in the sidebar to your right, type in Podcast #187 and Voilà.  It’s that simple.  But don’t forget to use the #sign when you search.</p>
<p><strong><a title="Mark Zedler" href="http://www.thebacchanalian.com/" target="_blank"><strong>Mark</strong></a></strong> and I discuss:</p>
<ul>
<li>Same sex sexual expression integrated into the social fabric of the ancient world.</li>
<li>How social stigma become attached to same sex sexual expression.</li>
<li><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philo" target="_blank">Philo of Alexandria</a> reinterprets the Sodom and Gomorrah story.</li>
<li>The repressive theology of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Chrysostom" target="_blank">John Chrysostom</a>.</li>
<li>The power of the dominant culture to dictate social norms.</li>
<li>His passion for Female Ejaculation.</li>
<li>Does female ejaculation cause performance anxiety?</li>
<li>How information about FE was suppressed.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong><a title="Mark Zedler" href="http://www.thebacchanalian.com/" target="_blank"><strong>Mark</strong></a></strong> invites you to visit him on his site <a title="Mark Zedler" href="http://www.thebacchanalian.com/" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a>! Explore themes like alternative lifestyles, erotica, adult humor, taboos and the history of sex.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff6600;">Mark put together a little slide show for you</span></p>
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<p>Got a question or a comment?  Wanna rant or rave?  Or maybe you&#8217;d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at <strong>(866) 422-5680</strong>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000080;">DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!</span></p>
<p>Look for all my podcasts on <strong>iTunes</strong>.  You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.</p>
<p>Today’s podcast is bought to you by: : <a title="My Stockroom" href="http://drdicksstockroom.stockroom.com/"> </a><strong><a title="My Stockroom" href="http://drdicksstockroom.stockroom.com/" target="_blank">Dr Dick’s Stockroom</a>.</strong></p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Hey sex fans,

Wersquo;re back with sex historian, Mark Zedler, and more of his fascinating SEX WISDOM.  This is Part 2 of our enlightening conversation ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Hey sex fans,

Wersquo;re back with sex historian, Mark Zedler, and more of his fascinating SEX WISDOM.  This is Part 2 of our enlightening conversation about some of our culturersquo;s sexual taboos.

If you somehow missed Part 1 of this thought-provoking expose, which premiered at this time last week, yoursquo;ll find it in the podcast archive here on my site.  All ya have to do is use the sitersquo;s search function in the sidebar to your right, type in Podcast #187 and Voilagrave;.  Itrsquo;s that simple.  But donrsquo;t forget to use the #sign when you search.

Mark and I discuss:

	Same sex sexual expression integrated into the social fabric of the ancient world.
	How social stigma become attached to same sex sexual expression.
	Philo of Alexandria reinterprets the Sodom and Gomorrah story.
	The repressive theology of John Chrysostom.
	The power of the dominant culture to dictate social norms.
	His passion for Female Ejaculation.
	Does female ejaculation cause performance anxiety?
	How information about FE was suppressed.

Mark invites you to visit him on his site HERE! Explore themes like alternative lifestyles, erotica, adult humor, taboos and the history of sex.
Mark put together a little slide show for you
[nggallery id=60]
BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection. Thatrsquo;s Dr Dickrsquo;s toll free podcast voicemail HOTLINE. Donrsquo;t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.

Got a question or a comment?  Wanna rant or rave?  Or maybe you'd just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
DONrsquo;T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!
Look for all my podcasts on iTunes.  Yoursquo;ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And donrsquo;t forget to subscribe. I wouldnrsquo;t want you to miss even one episode.

Todayrsquo;s podcast is bought to you by: :  Dr Dickrsquo;s Stockroom.

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		<title>Aunt Becky, Part 2 — Podcast #188 — 03/01/10</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 15:22:06 +0000</pubDate>
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Hey sex fans,
Becky Sherrick Harks, as her affable alter ego Aunt Becky, is back with more of what makes her the treasured sex writer, essayist and author of the wildly popular blog, Mommy Wants Vodka.  This is Part 2 of our conversation for The Erotic Mind podcast series.

Part 1 of our chat, which appeared [...]]]></description>
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<p>Hey sex fans,</p>
<p><a title="Mommy Wants Vodka" href="http://www.facebook.com/MommyWantsVodka" target="_blank"><strong>Becky Sherrick Harks</strong></a>, as her affable alter ego <strong><a title="Mommy Wants Vodka" href="http://www.facebook.com/MommyWantsVodka" target="_blank"><strong>Aunt Becky</strong></a></strong>, is back with more of what makes her the treasured sex writer, essayist and author of the wildly popular blog, <a title="Mommy Wants Vodka" href="http://mommywantsvodka.com" target="_blank"><em>Mommy Wants Vodka</em></a>.  This is <big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;">Part 2</span></strong></big> of our conversation for <a title="The Erotic Mind" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/category/the-erotic-mind/" target="_blank"><big><big><span style="font-family: georgia; color: #cc0000;">The Erotic Mind</span></big></big></a> podcast series.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Mommy Wants Vodka" href="http://www.facebook.com/MommyWantsVodka" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4108" style="border: 5px solid black;" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/232323232-fp58ot_23245593_488_8b282_45233232757637_nu0mrj.jpg" alt="" width="336" height="224" /></a></p>
<p><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;">Part 1</span></strong></big> of our chat, which appeared last week at this time, can be found in the podcast archive.  All ya have to do is use the site’s search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #186 and PRESTO!  But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.</p>
<p><strong><strong><a title="Mommy Wants Vodka" href="http://www.facebook.com/MommyWantsVodka" target="_blank"><strong>Aunt Becky</strong></a></strong></strong> will also share more fruit of her Erotic Mind.  We’ll learn why vacation sex is the best sex there is.</p>
<p><strong><strong><a title="Mommy Wants Vodka" href="http://www.facebook.com/MommyWantsVodka" target="_blank"><strong>Aunt Becky</strong></a></strong></strong> and I discuss:</p>
<ul>
<li>Sex writing essays — cohesive presentation with a punch line.</li>
<li>How her writing has changed over the years.</li>
<li>Exploring the absurdity of sex and mommyhood.</li>
<li>The power of words.</li>
<li>Getting off on making people laugh and grossing them out.</li>
<li> Her audience and the reactions she gets from her readers.</li>
<li>What the future holds for her.</li>
<li>Advice for the novice sex writer.</li>
</ul>
<p>For more of Aunt Becky and her sex writing visit her on her <em><em><a title="Mommy Wants Vodka" href="http://mommywantsvodka.com/" target="_blank"><em>Mommy Wants Vodka</em></a></em></em> website <a title="Mommy Wants Vodka" href="http://mommywantsvodka.com" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a>!  Or the <a title="Toy With Me" href="http://toywithme.com/"><em>Toy With Me</em></a> site <a title="Toy With Us" href="http://toywithme.com/" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a>! Or look for her on Facebook <a title="Mommy Wants Vodka" href="http://www.facebook.com/MommyWantsVodka" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a>!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000080;"><big><em>BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!</em></big></span></p>
<p>Check out <a title="lick-a-dee-split-connection" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/the-lick-a-dee-split-connection/" target="_blank"><strong><em>The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection</em></strong></a>. That’s Dr Dick’s toll <big><big>free</big></big> podcast voicemail <strong>HOTLINE</strong>. Don’t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.</p>
<p>Got a question or a comment?  Wanna rant or rave?  Or maybe you&#8217;d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at <strong>(866) 422-5680</strong>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000080;">DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">One last thought, I hope you’re also following my two other interview series, which appear on Wednesdays. One is called <a title="Sex EDGE-U-cation" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/category/sex-edge-u-cation/" target="_blank"><big><big><span style="color: #660000;">Sex EDGE-U-cation</span></big></big></a> — I converse with prominent practitioners, educators and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles.  And we investigate the world of fetish sex and kink.  The other is called <a title="SEX WISDOM" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/category/sex-wisdom/" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; color: #ffcc33;"><big><big>SEX WISDOM</big></big></span></a> — here I chat with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who are making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.  I can assure you that these conversations will be well worth the time you spend with us.</p>
<p>Look for all my podcasts on <strong>iTunes</strong>.  You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.</p>
<p>Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: <a title="fleshjack" href="http://www.fleshjack.com/fj_video.php?link=2228" target="_blank"><strong>Fleshlight &amp; FleshJack</strong></a>.</p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Hey sex fans,

Becky Sherrick Harks, as her affable alter ego Aunt Becky, is back with more of what makes her the treasured sex writer, essayist ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Hey sex fans,

Becky Sherrick Harks, as her affable alter ego Aunt Becky, is back with more of what makes her the treasured sex writer, essayist and author of the wildly popular blog, Mommy Wants Vodka.  This is Part 2 of our conversation for The Erotic Mind podcast series.

Part 1 of our chat, which appeared last week at this time, can be found in the podcast archive.  All ya have to do is use the sitersquo;s search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #186 and PRESTO!  But donrsquo;t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Aunt Becky will also share more fruit of her Erotic Mind.  Wersquo;ll learn why vacation sex is the best sex there is.

Aunt Becky and I discuss:

	Sex writing essays mdash; cohesive presentation with a punch line.
	How her writing has changed over the years.
	Exploring the absurdity of sex and mommyhood.
	The power of words.
	Getting off on making people laugh and grossing them out.
	 Her audience and the reactions she gets from her readers.
	What the future holds for her.
	Advice for the novice sex writer.

For more of Aunt Becky and her sex writing visit her on her Mommy Wants Vodka website HERE!  Or the Toy With Me site HERE! Or look for her on Facebook HERE!
BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection. Thatrsquo;s Dr Dickrsquo;s toll free podcast voicemail HOTLINE. Donrsquo;t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.

Got a question or a comment?  Wanna rant or rave?  Or maybe you'd just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
DONrsquo;T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!
One last thought, I hope yoursquo;re also following my two other interview series, which appear on Wednesdays. One is called Sex EDGE-U-cation mdash; I converse with prominent practitioners, educators and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles.  And we investigate the world of fetish sex and kink.  The other is called SEX WISDOM mdash; here I chat with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who are making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.  I can assure you that these conversations will be well worth the time you spend with us.
Look for all my podcasts on iTunes.  Yoursquo;ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And donrsquo;t forget to subscribe. I wouldnrsquo;t want you to miss even one episode.

Todayrsquo;s Podcast is bought to you by: Fleshlight #38; FleshJack.

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		<title>Dr Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 23:37:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dr dick</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey sex fans!
It’s Product Review Friday once again.  Following the trend of the last few weeks we have the pleasure of welcoming a new product line by a new manufacturer…well new to us anyhow.  Welcome Futuring International Ltd; a German company that manufacturers fine personal lubricants.
Dr Dick Review Crew members — Ken &#38; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey sex fans!</p>
<p>It’s Product Review Friday once again.  Following the trend of the last few weeks we have the pleasure of welcoming a new product line by a new manufacturer…well new to us anyhow.  Welcome <a title="futuring-usa" href="http://www.futuring-usa.com/" target="_blank">Futuring International Ltd</a>; a German company that manufacturers fine personal lubricants.</p>
<p><strong>Dr Dick Review Crew</strong> members — <strong>Ken &amp; Denise</strong> and <strong>Mick &amp; Chuck</strong> will introduce you to these new lube products.</p>
<p><a title="Dr.Love" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/dr-love-silkening-lubricant-100ml" target="_blank"><strong>Dr.Love</strong></a> Silkening Lubricant  ——  $21.99</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Ken &amp; Denise</strong><br />
<strong>Ken</strong>:  “This is sure enough a German product.  You can tell by just looking at the package.  The fine print comes in three languages; the primary one is German.  I think they used a computer program for the translation into English.”<br />
<strong>Denise</strong>:  “What does that have to do with anything?”<a title="Dr.Love" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/dr-love-silkening-lubricant-100ml" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-4099" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="drlove1a" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/drlove1a.png" alt="" width="120" height="445" /></a><br />
<strong>Ken</strong>:  “Nothing really.  Just making a point about authenticity.  This is the real deal.  Oh and remember when we first looked at the package we weren’t able to tell what kind of lube it was?”<br />
<strong>Denise</strong>:  “Right!  Nothing on the package says silicone-based.  So we were a bit confused at first.  The promotional materials that came with <a title="Dr.Love" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/dr-love-silkening-lubricant-100ml" target="_blank"><strong>Dr.Love</strong></a> spelled it out, but there was nothing on the package that says so.  And it’s important to know that sort of thing, because you wouldn’t want to use this lube with silicone toys.  Maybe they just need to add a little stick-on label that says silicone-based.  Just a thought.”<br />
<strong>Ken</strong>:  “<a title="Dr.Love" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/dr-love-silkening-lubricant-100ml" target="_blank"><strong>Dr.Love</strong></a> is a lighter consistency than some of the other silicone-based lubes I’ve used.  But it is thicker than your average water-based lube.  It’s really silky to the touch and it has plenty of glide.  You can tell it’s a quality lube, because you only need a little bit to make things slick as shit.  And it’s a slick feeling, not a greasy feeling.  There is a big difference, ya know.”<br />
<strong>Denise</strong>:  “There’s no significant smell or taste, which is very appealing to me.  It’s also latex and condom safe.”<br />
<strong>Ken</strong>:  “<a title="Dr.Love" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/dr-love-silkening-lubricant-100ml" target="_blank"><strong>Dr.Love</strong></a> stands up to water very nicely, so it’s great to use in the shower.  I love to squeeze one off in shower in the morning, so this a perfect lube for that.  You’ll need soap and water for a thorough cleanup.”<br />
<strong>Denise</strong>:  “I thought it dried out a bit quicker than other silicone-based lubes we’ve tried especially when we do anal.  But when I use it by myself for self-pleasuring, either with my hand or a toy, it last and lasts.  I don’t understand why the discrepancy, but there ya have it.”<br />
<strong>Ken</strong>:  “We used <a title="Dr.Love" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/dr-love-silkening-lubricant-100ml" target="_blank"><strong>Dr.Love</strong></a> in place of massage oil too and loved it.  It feels great on our skin.”<br />
<strong>Denise</strong>:  “And I even used it on my hair as a conditioner; so there’s that.  In fact, we went through our 3.4 fl.oz. container in less than a month.  So you know we loved this stuff.”<br />
<em>Full Review<strong> </strong><a href="http://www.drdicksextoyreviews.com/2010/02/26/dr-love-silkening-lubricant/" target="_blank"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a></em></p>
<p><a title="Get Maxxx" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/get-maxxx" target="_blank">Get MAXXX</a> —— $21.99</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Mick &amp; Chuck</strong><br />
<strong>Mick</strong>:  “Our package of <a title="Get Maxxx" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/get-maxxx" target="_blank">Get MAXXX</a> clearly states: ‘purest silicon (sic) lubricant, <a title="Get Maxxx" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/get-maxxx" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-4100" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="getmaxxx1a" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getmaxxx1a.png" alt="" width="120" height="464" /></a>Made in Germany.’  So we weren’t the least bit confused as to what kind of lube this was.”<br />
<strong>Chuck</strong>:  “We thought <a title="Get Maxxx" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/get-maxxx" target="_blank">Get MAXXX</a> worked best during our stroke sessions. It lubricates without reducing sensation and that’s important when we have one of our marathon sessions.”<br />
<strong>Mick</strong>:  “Yeah, we try to see who can outlast the other.  So this is the perfect lube for those edging contests.”<br />
<strong>Chuck</strong>:  “<a title="Get Maxxx" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/get-maxxx" target="_blank">Get MAXXX</a> is long lasting and remains slick and silky, which makes fucking a joy.  I hate it when lubes get sticky!  It’s completely hypoallergenic too.  Ya gotta love that.  I love the pump container.”<br />
<strong>Mick</strong>:  “Remember, silicone-based lubes and silicone toys don’t mix!”<br />
<strong>Chuck</strong>:  “<a title="Get Maxxx" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/get-maxxx" target="_blank">Get MAXXX</a> has no discernable taste and it’s odorless.”<br />
<strong>Mick</strong>:  “It has a surprisingly light consistency, but like I’ve already mentioned; it holds up really well when things get hot and heavy.”<br />
<strong>Chuck</strong>:  “This stuff is fantastic with our glass dildos. It’s also latex and condom safe.”<br />
<strong>Mick</strong>:  “<a title="Get Maxxx" href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-lubricants/silicone-based/get-maxxx" target="_blank">Get MAXXX</a> is about as health-conscious a lube as you will find anywhere.  It stands up great to water (think shower, hot tub, whatever).  My skin actually feels better after I use this stuff.  I love it.”<br />
<strong>Chuck</strong>:  “Back to the packaging; the pump top can be locked by twisting it while it&#8217;s in the up position.  It also comes with a plastic top lock that covers the spout to keep the lube from accidentally leaking out all over the place.  That’s a real thoughtful addition, I can tell ya.  I’ve had the misfortune of having a lube bottle open all over my toy box once.  I was fuckin mad as hell.”<br />
<em>Full Review<strong> </strong><a href="http://www.drdicksextoyreviews.com/2010/02/26/get-maxxx-personal-lube/" target="_blank"><big><strong>HERE</strong></big></a></em></p>
<p>ENJOY!</p>
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		<title>Call for Literary Art Extended to March 15</title>
		<link>http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2010/02/25/call-for-literary-art-extended-to-march-15/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 23:49:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dr dick</dc:creator>
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		<title>Sex Wisdom with Mark Zedler &#8211; Podcast #187 &#8211; 02/24/10</title>
		<link>http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/2010/02/24/podcast-187/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 15:17:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dr dick</dc:creator>
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Hey sex fans,
I have some absolutely fascinating SEX WISDOM in store for you today.  This is just the second installment in this new podcast series. We’re all about connecting with some of the movers and shakers in the field of human sexuality.   We’re talking with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who [...]]]></description>
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<p>Hey sex fans,</p>
<p>I have some absolutely fascinating <a title="SEX WISDOM" href="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/category/sex-wisdom/" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; color: #ffcc00;"><big><big>SEX WISDOM</big></big></span></a> in store for you today.  This is<a title="Mark Zedler" href="http://www.thebacchanalian.com/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-4087" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="mz" src="http://www.drdicksexadvice.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/mz.jpg" alt="" width="258" height="501" /></a> just the second installment in this new podcast series. We’re all about connecting with some of the movers and shakers in the field of human sexuality.   We’re talking with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who are making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.</p>
<p>My guest today is <a title="Mark Zedler" href="http://www.thebacchanalian.com/" target="_blank"><strong>Mark Zedler</strong></a>.  He’s a sex historian, don’t cha know.  And he’s here to help us demythologize some of our culture’s sexual taboos.  He believes, as do I, that once we have a historical perspective, we are less likely to be manipulated by those who want to keep us from the truth.  This is very interesting stuff, sex fans!  Please stay tuned.</p>
<p><strong><a title="Mark Zedler" href="http://www.thebacchanalian.com/" target="_blank"><strong>Mark</strong></a> </strong>and I discuss:</p>
<ul>
<li>Being a sex historian.</li>
<li>Exploring the origins of sexual taboos and myths.</li>
<li>The history of the Bacchanalia — its zenith, persecution and downfall.</li>
<li>What this story tells us about what happens.</li>
<li>The resurgence of sacred sexuality.</li>
<li>The Sin of Sodom.</li>
<li>Comparing ancient Hebrew and early Christian interpretations.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong><a title="Mark Zedler" href="http://www.thebacchanalian.com/" target="_blank"><strong>Mark</strong></a></strong> invites you to visit him on his site <a title="Mark Zedler" href="http://www.thebacchanalian.com/" target="_self"><big><strong><span style="font-family: arial; color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">HERE</span></span></strong></big></a>! Explore themes like alternative lifestyles, erotica, adult humor, taboos and the history of sex.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff6600;">Mark put together a little slide show for you</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000080;">DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!</span></p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Hey sex fans,

I have some absolutely fascinating SEX WISDOM in store for you today.  This is just the second installment in this new podcast ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Hey sex fans,

I have some absolutely fascinating SEX WISDOM in store for you today.  This is just the second installment in this new podcast series. Wersquo;re all about connecting with some of the movers and shakers in the field of human sexuality.   Wersquo;re talking with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who are making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.

My guest today is Mark Zedler.  Hersquo;s a sex historian, donrsquo;t cha know.  And hersquo;s here to help us demythologize some of our culturersquo;s sexual taboos.  He believes, as do I, that once we have a historical perspective, we are less likely to be manipulated by those who want to keep us from the truth.  This is very interesting stuff, sex fans!  Please stay tuned.

Mark and I discuss:

	Being a sex historian.
	Exploring the origins of sexual taboos and myths.
	The history of the Bacchanalia mdash; its zenith, persecution and downfall.
	What this story tells us about what happens.
	The resurgence of sacred sexuality.
	The Sin of Sodom.
	Comparing ancient Hebrew and early Christian interpretations.

Mark invites you to visit him on his site HERE! Explore themes like alternative lifestyles, erotica, adult humor, taboos and the history of sex.
Mark put together a little slide show for you
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BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection. Thatrsquo;s Dr Dickrsquo;s toll free podcast voicemail HOTLINE. Donrsquo;t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail.

Got a question or a comment?  Wanna rant or rave?  Or maybe you'd just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680.
DONrsquo;T BE SHY, LET IT FLY!
Look for all my podcasts on iTunes.  Yoursquo;ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And donrsquo;t forget to subscribe. I wouldnrsquo;t want you to miss even one episode.

Todayrsquo;s podcast is bought to you by: Eden Fantasys.

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		<itunes:author>Richard Wagner, Ph.D., ACS</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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