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[5 Mar 2010 | No Comment | ]
Well then…

Name: Stanford
Gender: male
Age: 25
Location: Green Bay
I was wondering if you have any suggestions for a homemade dildo?
Do you actually want to craft a dildo yourself? Or is this more a question about what might be readily available to safely bugger yourself with?
If you want to make one yourself, there are several “Make-your-own-dildo” kits out there. You can find them online. They supply you with everything you need to make a latex dildo cast of your own dong. And from that the dildo is made. How …

Desensitization, Effective Communication, Fear of Sex, INTERVIEW, PODCAST, Painful Intercourse, Performance Anxiety, Preorgasmic Women, SEX WISDOM, Sex-Positive Therapist, Sexual Anxiety, Sexual Surrogate »

[20 Jan 2010 | No Comment | ]
More of Shai Rotem – Podcast #181 – 01/20/10


Hey sex fans,
We’re back with my guest Shai Rotem, and Part 2 of our conversation about surrogate partner therapy; or as it is otherwise known as, sex surrogacy.  And this, my pretties, is the brand-spankin’ new SEX WISDOM podcast series, where we chat with renowned researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers; who are making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.

Did you happen to miss the inaugural program in this series? Not to worry!  Part 1 of my conversation with Shai is archived right here on my …

Behavior Modification, Effective Communication, Fear of Intimacy, Fear of Sex, INTERVIEW, PODCAST, Painful Intercourse, Philosophy of Sex, Relaxation Techniques, SEX WISDOM, Sex-Positive Therapist, Sexphobia, Sexual Anxiety, Sexual Surrogate, Sexual Trauma, Sexually Repressed »

[13 Jan 2010 | No Comment | ]
SEX WISDOM with Shai Rotem – Podcast #179 – 01/13/10


Hey sex fans,
I have a fantastic show in store for you.  I am delighted to inform you that I am launching yet another podcast series today.  I call it the SEX WISDOM podcast series.
Besides the wildly popular Sex EDGE-U-cation series and The Erotic Mind series that have been running for the past year and longer, I thought it would be grand to chat with some of the movers and shakers in the field of human sexuality.   So in the course of this new series we will be chatting with researchers, …

Being a Better Lover, Effective Communication, Female Ejaculation, Kegels, Nipples, Stress Incontinence, Underage Sex »

[6 Mar 2009 | No Comment | ]
The Coast Is Clear

Name:  ??
Gender: Male
Age: 33
Location: Miami
I have two unrelated questions: 1. I love anal sex but am concerned that as I age I run the risk of eventually becoming incontinent due to the sexual activity down there. Is this a valid concern or will my sphincter remain tight enough to hold everything in? I’ve read conflicting opinions. 2. My boyfriend likes the twinks. We’ve been together for about four years and even though I’m only a year younger (he‚s 35), part of the reason he’s attracted to me is my youthful …

Being a Better Lover, Cum, Discussing Sexual Issues, Effective Communication, Ejaculate, Enjoying Sex, Grief, Intimacy, Libido, Monogamy, Passion, Sex Drive, Sex and Relationships, Sexual Performance Issues, Sexual Response Cycle, Virginity »

[14 Nov 2008 | No Comment | ]
No, seriously…

Name: PaunFarr
Gender: Male
Age: 41
Location: Ohio
Dr. Dick, I’m feeling the intense letdown of the ballot issues passed this week in California, Florida and Arkansas. Especially CA, where they had gay marriage but now have lost it, and my heart goes out for all those married couples now in limbo. I don’t understand this. Ohio passed their “marriage protection” act a couple years ago, and it was a devastating blow to me. Why is ok for the majority to restrict the rights of the minority? Where is our defender? Where is justice …

Auto-Fellatio, Being a Better Lover, Closet Case, Cock Size, Cum, Discussing Sexual Issues, Effective Communication, Ejaculate, Fair Fight Training, Open Relationships, PODCAST, Sex and Relationships, Sexual Frustration, Watersports »

[14 Jul 2008 | No Comment | ]
Sex Advice With An Edge — Podcast #71 — 07/14/08


Hey sex fans,
I have a great show for you today. It’s a total Q&A day, so buckle your seat belts, my friends; it’s gonna be a wild ride.

John gets the squirts when he swallows the spunk.
Karen is considering couple’s counseling.
Ron is deathly afraid that trying to blow himself makes him queer.
Steve is afraid his piss drinkin’ is gonna get him in trouble.
??? isn’t gettin’ laid because of his little wiener…or so he thinks.
JC wonders if he can live in a sexless relationship.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!
Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split …

Behavior Modification, Being a Better Lover, Effective Communication, Ejaculation Concerns, Erection Concerns, Fair Fight Training, Female Masturbation, Full-Body Masturbation, Impotence, Lasting Longer, Masturbation, Relaxation Techniques, SEX TOY AWARENESS, Sensate Focus, Sex Toys, Sexual Anxiety, Sexual Inhibitions, Sexual Surrogate, Squeeze Technique, Video Review »

[6 Jun 2008 | No Comment | ]
Room With A View

Look for my new
Video Reviews! —
This week we have two great titles: COUPLES MASTURBATION and EVERY COUPLE CAN.

“I think we can all agree that there’s nothing more fundamental to a happy and healthy sex life than masturbation. Dr. Michael Perry. Ph.D., ACS, the producer of these fine movies, introduces the concept of masturbating with and for your partner.”

“This R-rated video (EVERY COUPLE CAN) has much more of a story line than the previous one. First we meet Sam and Marie, a sexually frustrated couple. Sam turns …

Effective Communication, Fetish, INTERVIEW, Jealousy, PODCAST, Swinging »

[24 Mar 2008 | No Comment | ]
Allie and John, Part 2 — Podcast #56 — 03/24/08


Hey sex fans,
This week we’re back with our brand-spankin’ new interview format. I am delighted to bring you Part 2 of my interview with two very important people in the world of swing.
Allie and John, are the founders of Swingercast.com. Their site is chock full of great information about the swinging lifestyle. Their podcasts are nifty travelogues where they share their sexy encounters with real people at real “couples only” swing clubs. They introduce you to other swingers and share intimate stories of their sex life as they …

Being a Better Lover, Bisexuality, Effective Communication, INTERVIEW, PODCAST, Swinging »

[17 Mar 2008 | No Comment | ]
Allie and John, Part 1 — Podcast #55 — 03/17/08


Hey sex fans,
This week we’re back with our brand-spankin’ new interview format. I am delighted to bring you Part 1 of my interview with two very important people in the world of swing. That’s “swing” as in swingers, not “swing” as in music. Although, who knows, they may be musically inclined too.
My guests, Allie and John, are the founders of Swingercast.com, Their site is chock full of great information about the swinging lifestyle. Their podcasts are nifty travelogues where they share their sexy encounters with real people …

Alcoholism, Discussing Sexual Issues, Drugs and Sex, Effective Communication, Sex and Relationships »

[28 Mar 2007 | No Comment | ]
IM Distress Signals

When I first began writing this advice column, back in the Paleolithic era, most correspondence came via snail mail. Those were the days, huh? Email replaced letters as the dominant means of communication about 8 years ago, and so it remains today. Lately, there’s been yet another innovation — the Instant Messenger. Never fear, Dr Dick stands at the ready to console and advise even at cyber speed.
Instant messenger technology allows me to do something I’ve never been able to do before, save the whole shebang …

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