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July 26, 2010June 1, 2026

The Erotic Mind of David Lawrence – Podcast #221 – 07/26/10

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Hey sex fans,

I have fantastic show in store for you today; it happens to be another twofer. My guest is so talented and his interests so diverse that he rightly falls into both The Erotic Mind and the Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series. I love when that happens. I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming a legend, David Lawrence.

I happen to know a number of very talented riggers, some of them have appeared on this show. And I know even more outstanding photographers; and a lot of them have appeared on this show too. But David is both. He has mastered photography and Shibari, the Art of Japanese Rope Bondage. And that, my friends, takes a huge amount of dedication!

David and I discuss:

His 30 years of professional photography work.
The appearance of erotic themes in his art.
Getting his start with Shibari.
Rigging all his own shoots.
The similarities and differences between the two art forms.
It’s all about passion.
What comes first — the bondage scene or the photographic concept.
His newest endeavor — Men BOUND.
Culturally induced responses to an image of a bound woman and a bound man.

Enjoy some of David’s stunning images below.

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June 30, 2010June 1, 2026

SEX WISDOM with Mistress Matisse – Podcast #215 – 06/30/10

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Hey sex fans,

Today is the last day of my special Pride month spectacular. I promised you at the beginning of the month we’d have a kick-ass line up of guests and I kept that promise. We started off with a visit to the lair of the Queen of Kink Couture, Tonya Winter. Then we chatted with the exquisitely edgy photographer, Boots Bryant. Then the brilliant songsters, John & Cass, aka The Wet Spots, thrilled us with their sexy music. And now I have the pleasure of welcoming… the one and only, Mistress Matisse. I mean, holy cow; where else can you find such diverse and entertaining programming?

It’s true, my favorite sex columnist, blogger and podcaster, the internationally acclaimed Pro-Dom, Mistress Matisse, is in the house. She’s here as part of the SEX WISDOM podcast series, don’t cha know. This is the series where we chat with researchers, educators, clinicians, pundits and philosophers who are making news and reshaping how we look at our sexual selves.

Matisse has someone special with her today, who she will introduce in a moment. But first one word of caution; you may hear some whining and whimpering in the background of today’s program. Those sound effects are provided by my dog, Ginger. I tell you this because I don’t want you to get the wrong idea and think that was me! Although god knows, the incredibly sexy and oh so entertaining Mistress Matisse makes even me, a big fat homo, weak in the knees.

Matisse and I discuss:

The Pacific Northwest as a hotbed of perversion.
Her frank and no-hold-bared style of sex talk.
Becoming Mistress Matisse.
Class structures and sex work.
The Politics of Blowjobs.
If it’s not one thing, It’s your mother.
Bridging Pleasure and Danger.
Cisgender, transgender and the dangers of binary thinking.

Matisse invites you to enter her world and visit her on one or all of her websites HERE or HERE !

See Matisse & friends at work and play.

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Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

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June 9, 2010June 1, 2026

Tonya Winter, Part 2 – Podcast #211 – 06/09/10

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Hey sex fans,

Today we return to the cavernous workspace of Queen of Kink Couture, Tonya Winter. This week’s audio pilgrimage marks Part 2 of our conversation and her highly anticipated return as part of the Sex EDGE-U-cation as well as The Erotic Mind podcast series

But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 or our conversation that appeared here last week, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in my Podcast Archive. All ya gotta do is use the site’s search function in the sidebar to your right; type in Podcast #209 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search.

Tonya and I discuss:

Materials and design specifics.
Darlex, Spandex, PVC, Stretch Mesh.
Arm binders & sleep sacks.
Her kinky life.
The unique bondage experience using her materials.
Endorphins & adrenaline.
Power play — bottoming, topping and empathy.
The recreation and cathartic aspects of power play.
Her sexual heroes.

Be sure to visit Tonya at her website HERE!

See more of some Tonya’s brilliant work below.

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June 7, 2010June 1, 2026

The Erotic Mind of Boots Bryant – Podcast #210 – 06/07/10

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Hey sex fans,

We continue our special Pride Month guest star extravaganza today. I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming a true original in the world of erotic photography, Kevin Johnson, aka Boots Bryant.

Boots is here as part of The Erotic Mind podcast series. In our conversations with noted erotic artists we’ve uncovered quite a bit about the creative process involved in this specialized art form. We’ve visited with numerous artists who create their art in a variety of media. We’ve discovered that the term “erotic art” covers a vast array of visual and literary expressions; some very graphic, others are subtlety suggestive. But all reflect the irrepressible spirit of the human sexual experience.

Boots is first and foremost a photographer, but he is also an erotic author. He shoots mainstream fashion stuff as well as his edgier stuff. But whatever he shoots you can be sure that it will pulse with enormous sexual energy. His photography can be both exquisitely beautiful and stunningly disturbing. And often his images are both of these things at the same time.

Boots and I discuss:

His nom de smut — Boots Bryant
The Mask Series.
His commissioned gigs.
The three new series he’s working on.
His unsettling early life.
Taking up photography as a kid.
How he began to shoot nudes.
Finding his models.
His music hobby.

See some of Boots’ stunning images below.

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June 2, 2010June 1, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Tonya Winter – Podcast #209 – 06/02/10

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Hey sex fans,

Ya’ll know June is Gay Pride month, right? And if you don’t believe me, ask President Obama. He made the official declaration again this year on May 28th, 2010. As you may also know, he is the first president in our glorious history to do so. So hurray for him! And an even bigger hurray for all us queer folk on this 41st anniversary of the birth of the modern gay rights movement.

I have a knock-you-out line up of guest for this special month. And to kick things off, so to speak, we take another audio field trip. I have the distinct pleasure of welcoming another Seattle-based personality, the veritable Queen of Kink Couture, Tonya Winter. We visit with her in her cavernous new workspace, don’t cha know.

And you should also know that you’re getting a double bang for your buck today, because Tonya is another twofer. She is here as part of the Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series as well as The Erotic Mind series. So yeah for that!

Tonya and I discuss:

Seattle being a hotbed of perversion.
Her new workspace in the SODO district of Seattle.
What accounts for her remarkable success.
Her unique designs.
Her humble kinky beginnings.
Her commitment to community service.
Her creative process.
Her secret grand plan.

Be sure to visit Tonya at her website HERE!

See some of Tonya’s brilliant work.

BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

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January 6, 2010May 30, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Voluptuous Lynn – Podcast #177 – 01/06/10

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Hey sex fans,

We’re ready to rock and roll with a brand new year of podcasts in the Sex EDGE-U-cation series. As you know these programs take a look at the fascinating world of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles, fetish sex and kink. We touch on topics both familiar and exotic. And you can count on our investigations to be interesting, stimulating as well as very informative, because we chat with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates from all walks of life.

And to kick off this new year, I have something quite extraordinary for you. Today, we feature the first woman of color to speak in this series. She is a sex worker. She brings a refreshingly honest, unique and sassy voice to the ever-growing chorus of exceptional guests in this series. I am honored to welcome Voluptuous Lynn.

She describes herself as “An Ebony Cougar In Sin City,” but I think you will agree with me that she’s more akin to a tiger. Her no nonsense approach to life, sexuality and sex work if truly refreshing, and she’s knock ‘em dead funny too. Oh, and you should know that today’s show is unusually long. Lynn and I got to shootin’ the shit and I completely lost track of time.

Lynn and I discuss:

Flying in the face of the culture’s notion of female beauty.
Leaving the vanilla world for sex work.
The life of this cam-girl and phone sex operator.
Being public about her work.
The impact of her sex work on her personal relationships.
Role playing with clients.
Advice for getting into sex work.
How she prepares herself, emotionally and physically for her job.

Lynn at work and play.

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December 9, 2009May 29, 2026

Andrea Zanin, Part 2 – Podcast #174 – 12/09/09

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Hey sex fans,

Today I bring you the very last word in the Sex EDGE-U-cation podcast series for 2009. We will be back with a slew of other prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions the first Wednesday of the New Year. But in the meantime, we go out with a bang. The brilliant and oh so charming Andrea Zanin is back with us to conclude the chat we began last week.

You didn’t miss Part 1 of this insightful conversation, did you? If ya snooze ya lose! Actually, that’s not completely true, because all of my podcast are archived on my site. Use the search function to your right, type in Podcast #172 and Voilà. Just remember to include the #sign when you do your search.

Andrea and I discuss:

A working definition of polyamory.
Her poly life.
The sociology behind the monogamous heterosexual, reproductive pair.
Marriage and queer folk.
Changing attitudes toward polyamory in the popular culture.
The connection, if any, between poly and other nontraditional sexual expressions.
Coming out as poly or kinky.
The right to culturally competent healing and helping care.

For more of Andrea check out her website HERE!

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December 2, 2009May 29, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Andrea Zanin – Podcast #172 – 12/02/09

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Hey sex fans,

Back in early February of this year I launched this new series of podcast interviews called Sex EDGE-U-cation. I promised back then that this series would take a look at the fascinating world of fetish sex and kink. We’d touch on topics both familiar and exotic. I remember telling that I could guarantee that our investigation will be interesting, stimulating and very informative, because we would be chatting with prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles from all over the world.

Well then, here we are ten months later and we’re still going strong. My first guest in this series, Dart, introduced me to today’s guest way back in February. But its only now that I finally have this opportunity to introduce her to you. Join me in welcoming the amazing Andrea Zanin. She is my last guest in this series for 2009, and she’s a humdinger, don’t cha know.

Andrea is also from Toronto, as is Dart, and like him she is internationally known and respected. She’s a writer and educator within the queer, polyamory and BDSM/leather communities. And she bring a unique voice to this ever growing chorus of exceptional guests in this series.

Andrea and I discuss:

Her life as a grad student, community activist, teacher and writer.
Being a sex geek and blogging since 2006.
Her site being a virtual graduate course in human sexuality.
Presenting on college campuses.
Being a leather dyke and being a judge for leather contests.
Power play, BDSM and fetishes.
The currency of power, consent and negotiations.
Being a Dom in power play and a switch in sensation play.

You can visit Andrea on her website HERE!

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November 25, 2009May 29, 2026

Tony Buff, Part 2 – Podcast #170 – 11/25/09

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Hey sex fans,

It’s the day before Thanksgiving and I have the holiday treat you’ve all been waiting for. Porn star, activist, educator, rigger and Dom. Tony Buff, Is back with us for more of his unique Sex EDGE-U-cation.

Part 1 of my chat with Tony, which appeared last week at this time, is the most popular interview podcast to date. It broke all download records for a single podcast in a single week, so yea for that. But wait, did you somehow miss last week’s installment? We’ll that’s just not right! But don’t worry; you can make it up. All my podcasts are archived right here. All ya have to do is use the site’s search function to your right; type in Podcast #168 and presto! Don’t forget the #sign when you do your search

Tony and I discuss:

His fan base that includes loads of kinky women.
His polyamorous relations that includes Derek da Silva and Chris Yosef.
Open, honest communication the key to relationship success.
Power Play — how he started and his life now.
Being a power switch.
Exhilaration of creating scenes for his sub.
Cathartic and recreational aspects of BDSM.
The importance of working with sex positive & kink-positive healing and helping professionals.

Be sure to visit Tony on his kick-ass site HERE!

More of Tony & friends at work and play.

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November 18, 2009May 29, 2026

Sex EDGE-U-cation with Tony Buff – Podcast #168 – 11/18/09

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Hey sex fans,

Did you miss me last week? I know, I know; it was beyond my control. Sorry to disappoint. But, to make it up to you, I have the real deal for you today. That’s right, we’re gonna get some mighty impressive Sex EDGE-U-cation from one of the luminaries of gay porn. I’m talkin big, big star here people, and that’s both literally and figuratively, if ya catch my drift.

I have the pleasure of welcoming a tireless activist, compelling educator, masterful rigger and superb Dom. He also directs as well as performs in his signature line of critically acclaimed fetish movies. He is the one and only Tony Buff.

If you know anything about BDSM, rope bondage or power play, you will probably know his name. And if you are a connoisseur of cutting edge smut, well then, I know you are a huge fan of this amazing man, just like me.

Tony brings the same intensity and focus of his on screen performances to this interview. And he adds his unique voice to the ever-growing chorus of prominent educators, practitioners and advocates of unconventional sexual expressions and lifestyles that is this podcast series.

Tony and I discuss: