If you’re a person born with only a vagina, it’s a sad day when you realise you’ll never truly know or understand what it’s like to have sex if you had a penis.
And vice versa, for people born with penises.
It’s a fact of life. An unbridgeable gap in understanding. It is something that will always come up in hypotheticals, when asked what we’d do if we had a penis for the day or whether we’d rather change sex every time we sneezed or always smell like butter.
Sadly, us vagina-havers will never truly know what it’s like to have sex when you have a penis.
But we asked a bunch of straight men to be as descriptive as possible when telling us what it actually feels like to put their penis in a vagina, so we can all get a little closer to understanding.
All names have been changed, because few men want to publicly declare what sex feels like on the internet.
Let’s find out all the bodily sensations men feel when they slip their penis into a vagina.
‘It feels like a warm cushion.
‘The weird part is, the penis doesn’t really “absorb” the feeling. It’s your head/brain that starts rushing.’
‘It feels like a snug glove filled with warm oil.’
‘Entering a vagina for me is a very intense moment because for me – it’s the ultimate agreement of intimacy between a man and woman.
‘If I am wearing a condom it feels different to going natural – my penis feels less sensitive and less connected to the woman with a condom on.
‘There is a warm soft feeling of entering her, she has a moistness that cant be matched.
‘I guess you could say it’s like scuba diving penis first.’
‘It’s hard to describe, but it kind of feels like pushing yourself into a lubed inflatable armband.
‘I’d say it feels a little like going underwater too.
‘Imaging eating the best brownie you’ve ever had, then imagine that sensation over all your nerve endings and taking up your entire headspace, rather than just having a party in your mouth.’
‘Like your penis is being stroked and hugged from all directions at the same time.’
‘Warm with a bit of tightness so there’s feeling all over, but soft enough so it’s not like the thing’s getting squeezed.
‘However in some circumstances it can be a bit like penetrating a keyhole where the inside’s lined with some kind of dry rubber.’
‘Gooey warm softness. It feels like a warm smooth jam doughnut that you’ve just pierced with your cock.’
‘There is always the initial sensation when entering the vagina, a certain warmth, and this tickles the nerve sensations up and down the shaft of the penis.
‘It’s a bit like the feeling of heat when you open an oven on a cold day.
‘She gets wetter and wetter, it becomes more difficult to maintain friction and sometimes it can feel as if the orgasm is running away from you.
‘The intensity of my own release can vary, it can always be satisfying, but the bigger orgasms are obviously better, like a volcano erupting inside you – your whole body feeling every part.
‘Sometimes to heighten my orgasm I may suck her toes towards the end (I have a foot fetish)
‘After a particularly big release, there’s little can be done above collapsing on top of her, drained and content. Everything spent, but too weak to just roll over.’
‘Well, the initial feeling when you first go inside is pretty unreal. Especially when the vagina is really tight and wet.
‘Then when you’re inside the only way to describe it is if you were to squeeze your penis with your hand, like the vagina is gripped to your penis.
‘Then different positions give you different sensations, for example from behind can feel really deep and intense, more so than missionary.’
‘Warm, soft and sensitive with that slight rubbing.
‘A rush of adrenaline and excitement and then a satisfying feeling, like when you have that first sip of a cold beer on a really hot summer’s day.’
‘It doesn’t feel like I expected it to as a young man.
‘Before I had sex, I expected it would feel wet and noticeably warm, Stifler’s words from American Pie ringing in my teenage ears.
‘It is however a different sort of pleasure from masturbation and I wondered why for a while.
‘I think a big part of the erotic sensation comes from the pressure applied to the base of the penis. Men tend to focus on the tip when they masturbate, but during sex there is a lot more going on with the base of the shaft, and it contributes greatly to sexual pleasure.
‘Thrusting sends a tingling sensation down the penis as the sensitive portions of the tip are stimulated. There is no grating shove or resistance, really, another pre-sex misconception.
‘The penis does not feel consumed or surrounded, but functionally positioned like an elevator in its shaft. Pleasure comes in occasional jolts and not a constant sensation of deepening or rhythmic enjoyment.’
‘Imagine a thick sock made of velvet. Then add in some ridges.’
‘Warm, comfortable and (usually) wet, but if it is dry it’s very uncomfortable. But, in the odd occasion, over quicker than I’m able to actually think what it’s like.’
‘The quelling of long standing wonder, akin to Indiana Jones finding a way into a cavern he long hoped he’d find. Like entering a brave new world that’s quite snug, warm, and eventually hot. Good kind of hot.
‘There’s tingling and further hardening and excitement and the feeling of growth and the will to go forward even deeper.’
‘Putting your penis in something is a bit like putting your foot in something, but if your foot was extremely sensitive.
‘If you put your foot in a slipper that is cold, hot, dry, wet, small, big, whatever, then you will feel the appropriate feeling. The penis is much the same, although you are generally a lot more careful with where you’re putting it than your big old hoof.
‘Also, what is positive/negative is very different between the foot and the penis. You wouldn’t want your slippers to be wet and warm, although that is absolutely fine when it comes to the vagina.
‘The similarities come in terms of fit, a snug fit is ideal for both and you can certainly notice if your slipper/vagina does not fit as you may have hoped.
‘Much like if you were to try on every pair of slippers in Debenhams, each vagina is different, specifically on entry. Some much more of an issue than others in terms of each of entry. I guess this is just down to shape and size of the respective genitals.
‘Once in, there is notable difference in terms of how snug the fit is and how aqueous the area is, which makes a big difference to the general feel.
‘But, unless circumstances are particularly extreme, it’s all a lot of fun regardless of variables.’
‘I once read that it feels like sliding into warm custard.
‘I’ve never slid into warm custard, but that sounds similar to the feeling of going in a vagina – just very warm, wet with a slight thickness, and comforting.
‘It’s also like a well-fitting shoe, or getting tucked into bed. It feels like exactly the right size, nice and snug without cutting off circulation.’
‘Every experience is different and very much age and childbirth dependant. It also depends on the type of sex you are having, position and a multitude of other variants.
‘First full penetration is simply heaven – smooth, encompassing, embracing – a huge depth of sensations across your whole penis.
‘Subsequent thrusts – again depending on speed, angle and depth – give you different sensations across different parts of your willy.
‘Getting to know your partner’s fanny and how to work together can build and release all kind of sensations.’
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